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EmmaLL
Sparkling once again

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Last Visited:     25 September, 2020
Registered:     04 April, 2005
Location:     St. Albans, Hertfordshire, England


 



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Transsexual

Favorite Look:
General / Everyday wear


No aged 44 and thought this needed an update, maybe even a new pic or two sometime...

I am what I say I am - just sometimes I'm not so together - I am a mess and sometimes I get pretty down as well as up - just bear that in mind when you read this, I haven't got all the answers. Wish I did.

Tall (6ft), blonde haired, blue eyed, 44 year old ts gal about town.
Been fulltime for 12 years now and mostly happier for it.

Just getting on with my life and trying to enjoy it as much as I can. Packed in my old career and though still self employed I now have a little shop that I run and may well franchise sometime in the future. Its a lot of fun building up a little brand and dealing with the (generally) lovely customers.

Had a few minor confidence wobbles in the early days (my 2 day breakdown) but now doing great and I'm enjoying life more than I ever have before. It just gets easier and easier and better and better. Could do with losing a bit of weight and spending more on myself but if thats my only complaint its not much.

I have a great wife and a fabulous sonny jim (from frozen pop). I'm not looking for anything else relationship wise. My wife is the only one for me and absolutely incredibly supportive and understanding. My family is everything to me.

I like to think I'm a pretty decent, fun, genuine person who's into running, cooking,, Lego, F1, shopping, politics, chatting and just generally trying to be the best that I can be (though often failing miserably).

Thanks for reading and take care.

Emma X

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Think I'm gonna write a bit up about my take on some trans issues over time. First off...

Emma on True-Selves

When I lived as a guy it was horrid - I felt like I was hiding behind a mask. I was so far from being my true-self that I would sometimes pass out in company under the strain. I couldn't do it anymore. I decided I'd transition and I'm glad I did. We all make our choices on how to live life but I decided that the new me would not be living in stealth. I guess at 6ft+ I didn''t really have that option but I didn't want to be wearing a new mask. I guess what I'm trying to say is just be you. If you transition make sure the new you fits comfortably and you don't have to try too hard. Being you should be the easiest most comfortable thing in the world.

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Emma on Passing -

I don't always pass. I do sometimes of course, quite often, but I have some factors against me. Im almost 6ft 2 before I put on shoes and my voice isn't great. The pictures you see here are carefully selected not to show me on a day where I look rough. So does passing matter? No not really. I'm very confident in who I am and I think that's more important than maintaining some kind of invisibility. I'm quite happy if the lady who serves me in Marks and Sparks think 'oh, she's a trans-girl' as long as she isn't ignorant enough to call me sir. If we all disappear into the ether then how is the world supposed to get used to us? It wont. I'm not saying try to out yourself at every occasion but if you act pretty normal with some confidence the world will generally be ok with you. Chavvy twats are a funny old thing too - amazing how quiet they are if they sense you have some confidence. So all I'm saying ladies is chin up - this is your world too.

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Emma on Coming Out -

This was tough - probably the toughest thing I ever did but I'm still here now.. Did I get it right?, not always. Sometimes I handled it a badly but I tried, really hard to be supportive and considerate of the people I told. Some took it in their strides, some freaked, some had a lot of grief to deal with. The one thing I do have now is most people still on board. I did lose some of course, I think sadly not everyone can handle it. What ever the result I gave thought to their feelings. There are alot of ways to do it but if you really want to retain these people in your life - give it some thought, treat them with the love and respact they deserve and with a bit of luck they will still love you too - good luck x

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Emma on Trans people in the media -

We probably do need more of the right kind of exposure, certainly the general public need to see us as regular people, not some demonic perverts, but sadly all we seem to see are trans people starting out on or going through their transition, we never see the people who have lived and grown for a few years. The likes of Caitlyn Jenner are held up as spokesmen for our community but although they maybe a mature adult (questionable), they are certainly do not speak with a mature experience. As I look back at how I was in my first couple of years I realise I was completely self obsessed, selfish, fearful and emotionally shaky but thats not who I am now. We do need to see the process but how often do you see people on tv who have settled, normal lives, hobbies and careers (a shoe collection does't count btw). A few more rounded trans people in the media might just do us a bit of good.


Interests: Shopping, Online chat, Email chat, Will not meet, Pubs, Nightclubs, Attached, Friendship, Movies / Cinema, Good Food / Wine, Music Festivals / Gigs, Holidays / Travel, Politics, Sporting Events, Transitioning advice / mentoring, Counselling / Life coach



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