marionadams12, Makeover from St. Albans

I work from home in my relaxing, discrete therapy room in the lovely city of StAlbans. Please take a look at my website for my full range of treatments and online booking https://www.the-natural-touch.co.uk/

I offer waxing, eyelash and eyebrow tinting, massage ,healing and energy therapies, to help with many different issues, fears and phobias, body image worries emotional and physical. I help clients with makeup and clothes advice and going out in public, often for the first time. Booking is quick and simple online and you can choose the amount of time. I can do zoom calls if distance is an issue.
Hello, this is Simone

march 2024
Hi my lovely friends. Recently I had a conversation with the wife of a man who had opened up about being trans. This lady was amazing and while I was talking to her it occurred to me that although I offer help to trans clients I haven't offered support to their friends and family members. So I would like to change that from now. If you are reading this and you are the partner, wife family member or friend I want you to know that I am here for you too. I offer a 1st appointment with coffee and chat that anyone can book.

March 2024
Hi it's Julie again,
just a quick review on my visit to the lovely Marion at The Natural Touch, she is always a happy soul with a smile. I did take some Double Headed Narcissi as a gift, as Marion is a spring person, but that's just me.

I like to go full dressed as a female, I'm transgender if you haven't guessed, I have had a makeover and cross-dressing lessons with Marion. Very informative, very constructive, even went and got a new colour pallet and accessories to enhance my look afterwards. Marion pointed me in the right direction as some times you can get stuck doing the same things.

Today I was having a full leg wax, eyebrow wax and a full body Aromatherapy massage for 80 mins, I have to say again as I have had it done before with Marion, Amazing! Shame I can't show my freshly waxed legs off as the weather is cold.

The eyebrow wax was quick and pain less, Marion can trim them how you want, so if you're not comfortable going the full female eyebrow look, Marion will just tidy up the eyebrows up, more shape and less bushy.

My Aromatherapy massage was for 80 minutes, you can go for less time but Marion is so good, why would you want to!!!
I could easily fall asleep afterwards, so relaxing, and de-stressing. I was trying to think which parts of her hands she was using, to achieve the effects, it's not just a rub over but an in-depth muscle massage, it releases tension, stress and makes you feel so good afterwards.

This is my review, Marion has not paid or given any special treatment to me. Marion is a lovely person, will treat everyone in a professional manner, there is no pressure selling, and you are not rushed, just loads of good Karma, I would give ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ if I could. Julie xx

January 2024.

It's now been twenty months since I first visited Marion at the Natural Touch for a ‘Crossdressing’ appointment and I have seen her at least twice a month since then. Each time, this has been a truly magical experience. Now, as I write this, a full calendar year has passed, with the wonderful Marion by my side, accompanying me on this bumpy but scenic path of self discovery.

Definitely a whirlwind of a year, lived more and more as ME, and being able to express the feminine side within. A year ago when I wrote one of my blogs, I could never have imagined having the confidence to achieve what I have done in 2023, and that is all thanks to Marion’s friendship and guidance.

Marion and I went everywhere in 2023. We visited a big London Auction House,We went to the Wallace Collection, to Kenwood House, the Museum in St Albans, Hatfield House and Gardens, and have eaten lunch on three different occasions at restaurants in St Albans, not to mention our regular visits to a country house hotel for a glass of wine or coffee.

Even, with what would seem like everyday things such as our visit to Brent Cross and to a Garden Centre last Autumn, these too have been so special for me. To experience these trips and the aforementioned visits, whilst presenting my feminine self to the world is like being born again, and I have to say that I am seeing everything through completely new eyes.

When we are out and about, I always get the feeling that Marion is watching over me, protecting me with her gaze should there be a problem. However, such is my confidence now in how I choose to express my gender, everything goes to plan.

Thanks to Marion I have learned a lot about myself. Her personality is very gentle and totally non-judgemental. Marion has also given me such valuable counselling in how to express my feminine side to my family and using her thoughtful words I was able to come out to them earlier in the year. A mixed reaction as you would expect, but having a history of questioning my gender identity going back forty years there was, thankfully, a degree of acceptance. Furthermore, I am now able to wear make up at home and have also taken to having my nails done regularly at a local nail salon. All of which is simply wonderful.

I am not a woman and will never be one, even if I fully transitioned physically. There has been a lot of recent press regarding the freedom of Trans women versus the threat to the identity and status of Women. Some have even begun calling it another misogynistic way of treating women.
I for one, would never dream of challenging a woman’s rights nor overstepping any boundaries. On the contrary, I will always seek to uphold a woman's entitlements and fully support the importance and strength of women which is often overlooked in this antediluvian society in which we live. However, I can’t help feeling how I feel, and whilst it is a feeling that is difficult to explain, to be able to express my feminine side so freely gives me such joy and is my right as long as this does not impinge on the rights of others.

Marion’s ‘Crossdressing’ service, is very different to other such outlets. Her approach at The Natural Touch is two fold. If you simply want to escape from reality and live for a while as another person, then you can bring your own feminine outfits and spend time dressed up in a very safe and calm environment. Added to this, Marion will also help you with your makeup and deportment. However, if reality wants to escape from ‘YOU’, then what you receive from Marion will be more than simply advice on outward appearance. She will also help you to explore and develop, at your own pace, your inner femininity as well, irrespective of how you present yourself visually to the world and will give you the confidence to live everyday life in big or small ways as the person who you feel that you are.

The advice that I would give to others who are biologically male but feel strongly about their feminine self is to take things very slowly and above all find yourself a ‘Marion’ THIS MARION!
Moreover, if you feel you want to take things further and go out in public en femme then the winter is best time of year to do so. The darker days, muted lighting and early evenings can help to soften your appearance if you still lack confidence. Also, I found that by wearing a nice big coat can provide you with a kind of refuge in which to hide if you feel uncertain about how you appear.

Showing my age I keep remembering the lyrics from the band New Order and their track entitled “True Faith’ which really sums up how I feel.

“I feel so extraordinary
Something's got a hold on me
I get this feeling I'm in motion
A sudden sense of liberty”

Thank you Marion, for being you, and for helping ME and others in their quest to find and release their feminine self, and good luck to all those who travel on a similar path as mine.

Much love to everyone.

Simone xx

It’s the 26th May 2023
and as I write this, Marion and I have just celebrated our first full year since meeting and the anniversary of my first ‘Cross dressing’ appointment at The Natural Touch. Marion’s help and advice, regarding the application of make up, what style of outfits suit me, how to present my feminine self, and her guidance in understanding who I am, has been second to none. Moreover, the friendship that we have developed during this past year has become so valuable to me.

Naturally, we had to celebrate our anniversary in style and so we spent an hour or so in the sunshine, enjoying the garden of a nice country house hotel, two “ladies” sipping a glass of champagne each!

In my last diary entry in February of this year I predicted that 2023 would be full of even more milestones reached and achievements accomplished and so far, with Marion’s unbelievable encouragement, this is turning into a year that out surpasses anything that I could have ever dreamt of.

Thanks to Marion’s support I am so confident and content with being the Trans woman that I believe that I am. We have been out and about to so many places with me dressed en femme, including the St Albans museum where we enjoyed a coffee and a very large piece of cake each. More recently we drove down to Hampstead and visited Kenwood House. To experience this as ME, with my very special Marion by my side was just one of the best moments of my life.

Marion’s hairdresser Emma has also attended to my hair on several occasions and Marion’s facial cleansing treatment at The Natural Touch studio is simply wonderful. I highly recommend it for everyone.

Now recognising myself as Transgender, the change in me has been extraordinary these past 12 months, and following our celebratory drink, I sent Marion a photograph taken a year ago when I first visited her and also one taken quite recently when we were out together. Her email reply couldn’t have summed this up better “The pics look like 2 different people, the lack of confidence in last years one is so obvious compared to now” she said.
That is all thanks to you dearest Marion.

I recently attended a voice coach in central London in a bid to modify the way that I speak and to project a more feminine tone. Fully made up, I went to the appointment alone, but felt that Marion’s presence was with me at all times. After parking, I didn’t just walk to the appointment I positively ‘strutted’ as if I owned the world, such is the boost that Marion has given me.

Our future plans show no bounds and a nice (ladies do) lunch is on the cards this summer along with other trips planned to the West End.

Thank you Marion, for being you, and for helping ME and others in their quest to find and release their feminine self.

20/5/2023
Pure indulgence

Hi Julie here again, I had to book for another visit, to pamper myself, with a full leg, eyebrow and Brazilian waxing and to finish it off with a full Swedish massage and to see lovely Marion again. My legs look amazing, soft, silky, and smooth, I think the massage oil has helped! Can wait to show them off! Roll on summer, bring on the tan!

It was easy to book online at the Natural Touch website, just a few clicks, and you're booked in with an email to confirm your booking, you're done, just turn up at the agreed time and enjoy!

First with the waxing, eyebrows and legs no problem, never had a Brazilian before, I wasn’t sure as you always think the worst pain especially in the genital area. I was expecting a bit of discomfort, this is from someone who can shed a tear from plucking an eyebrow hair!

Marion kept the pain to a minimum, don’t worry about showing that area, Marion is a top professional, she has seen it all, so no need to feel embarrassed. The waxing wasn't that bad after all, would I have it done again? YES, it feels a lot fresher and more hygienic, I have to feel clean all over.

So we come to the pure indulgence part The aromatherapy massage, I booked in for 80 minutes, there are different times depends on your timescale. I think I deserve to pamper myself, with all the stresses of life just build up, especially in these modern times.

We discussed the essential oil combinations, and picked suitable oils. The treatment room is relaxing with soft music playing in the background. and a heated couch, All you have to do is just lie there and relax. I have to declare to Marion that I’m very ticklish, not saying that Marion will tickle me, but I can burst out in laughter and squirm, just incase.

The first thing I noticed was Marion's hands were hot, I asked if she had warmed them up, Marion's reply was she had just washed them under cold water! Apparently it's her healing energy. My left shoulder was sore due to work, and afterwards it felt so much better, also I felt very sleepy, I think I might've dosed off about 10 times or even more!

I feel so relaxed today, I can feel all the tension and the stress which has built up, just melt away! It is worth every penny, as your mind, body and soul become synchronised as one. I had a good night of sleep, haven't had one in ages, and woke up with no aches or pains and my shoulder feels great. I do recommend The massage, someone recommended the seaweed scrub in the blog, might give that a go as well!

My legs look amazing, soft, silky, and smooth, I think the massage oil has helped! Can wait to show them off! Roll on summer, bring on the tan!

Thank you again, Marion, for a wonderful session, you do make a difference, much appreciated! See you soon. Julie x

It was lovely to see you again and I'm so pleased you feel great today
M x

13/4/2023
Another happy client

Hi, my name is Julie, I’ve been transgender for about 40 years and love dressing as a woman. however sometimes you still need help developing and find your path to follow.

I thought I would write a little something on Marion and my visit to The Natural Touch. I’m not going to go into too many details as I don’t want to spoil it for you, plus my five hours would make it a bit of a very long review.

I went to the website and had a look at waxing, make-up and dressing services, they are easy to book online. I have had an eyebrow and full leg wax before, so it wasn’t a problem for me, it’s not as painful as you think!

I picked the date and time, and payed my deposit, I received my confirmation via email and instruction on how to find The Natural Touch, don’t worry about parking, not an issue. If you go dressed or change there, it’s not a concern.

Marion is lovely! She won’t judge you. If you have never dressed in front of anyone before or looking to go out dressed as a woman, I would suggest booking an appointment! Marion will guide you on your look, style, clothes advice, make-up, accessories, colour combinations etc…

I was quite excited when the day to arrived, I just wanted to see Marion and to see what she thinks of Julie, it’s like having a second option, which is not a bad thing as you can get stuck doing the same things over again and again! I have been dressing for 40 years, but it doesn’t mean that you know it all and there is still room for improvement, it’s part of your life journey!

We started with waxing, it was fine for me, I did have questions about other parts of the body for waxing and Marion soon put my mind to rest (I will be booking more treatments!). Then we went through the clothes and I modelled them to Marion, you only need 4–5 outfits, I think I might have taken a bit too much to be honest. Marion soon enhanced a good dress into a stunning dress, by suggesting a few accessories. We took photos so I can remember the accessories and can match them up for future.

We went into make-up session, we had a cup of coffee as we discussed my routine. We started with skin care and the importance of getting a good base to start on. We then went through the steps on applying make-up techniques, I was very interested what Marion thought and to see the end result with a makeover, I loved it! Very happy with the result! It will boost your confidence!

I am already planning the next visit/s, definitely more waxing, going out for lunch, Swedish massage and seeing the colour consultant recommended by Marion. Of course, I will need a new outfit, shoes, and accessories!

So a big heart felt thank you to Marion and making my visit wonderful.

Julie xx

8/3/2023
From a Trans client of mine.

Dearest Marion

HAPPY WOMEN'S DAY

Here's my love and best wishes to you on International Women's Day 2023.

Wishing a very happy Woman's Day to strong, intelligent, talented and simply wonderful women of this world.

It’s crazy that women still have to fight for their rights. We still live in a society where being a woman is dangerous. Let’s remind ourselves that our mothers, sisters and daughters are absolutely, unbelievably amazing, and they deserve so much more.

Everything starts with a woman. Life starts with a woman. The greatest love of all starts with Her. Appreciating and loving everything that women give us each and every day is our duty.

Don't you ever forget that you are loved and appreciated. You fill my days with happiness and my world with love.

Simone xx

23/2/2023
My Continued Journey with Marion, to Discover the Woman in 'ME'

Gosh what a year 2022 was!!
Eight months on, since I first telephoned Marion to arrange that initial appointment, my journey to find ‘ME’ has gone from expressing my feminine side through simply cross dressing to something very real and now recognising myself as probably on the edge of being Transgender.
With Marion’s patience, kindness and understanding the true ‘Me’ has been set free and is now flying with such confidence. Not only confidence to be Transgender but also a boost in my confidence across everyday life. Moreover, thanks to Marion, a lot of my general phobias seemed to have disappeared as well, which is amazing.
From a nervous first walk in September, Marion and I have now been out and about regularly in St Albans. We have visited Churches, a Cathedral and Retail outlets with me all made up and dressed, en femme. Some unbelievable adventures, for which I am extremely grateful to Marion for.
The last outing of 2022 found us both enjoying drinks in a Country House Hotel bar and being addressed by the waiter as ‘Ladies’! There is no way that I could have ever achieved this on my own or in reality with anyone else by my side. I just wanted that moment to last forever and when Marion ordered another drink I was so happy that we did not have to go back to The Natural Touch too early.
The start of 2023 has been just as incredible. Marion arranged for me to see a colour/stylist and make up consultant. Such a wonderful and enlightening appointment. Marion’s connections within the LGBT friendly community are a real bonus. Later on in February I also have an appointment with Emma, Marion’s Hairdresser at The Natural Touch.
In truth, God created me as a man and I have no intention of disrespecting Him/Her in this regard by doing anything drastic physically. Furthermore, I also have the happiness of my family to consider. I believe that He/She gave me the biological body of a man for a purpose and I hope that I have fulfilled God’s wishes during my lifetime and that I will continue to do so.
But He/She also gave me feelings and emotions that some of the time I struggle to understand but which on other occasions seem so natural. There is a feeling that there is a feminine personality in side of me. I do not know what it feels like to be a woman, and equally I do not know how other men feel. However, after I have put on a nice outfit and done my make up and hair, the euphoric feeling that comes over me when I look into the mirror is something extraordinary. I have this sense of an ‘energy’ rushing through me out of the top of my head and then it settles calmly over me. Is this a release of this feminine side of me or is this really me?
As the great 19th Century artist John Constable said, “We see nothing truly till we understand it” so onward goes my journey of self-understanding with my friend Marion.
Here’s to 2023, which with Marion’s guidance will I am sure, be full of even more milestones reached and achievements accomplished.
Thank you Marion.
Your positive energy over the last year has given me such strength, and time spent with you is always so up lifting.
Si xx

24/1/2023
I have been helping one of my trans clients, for some months now, with dressing and makeup.They have been gaining in confidence particularly with applying their own makeup until someone made a comment, not done in spite. This knocked their belief in themselves so I suggested we went to see
Margaret Harris @House of Colour Berkhampstead.
Margaret is a colour consultant working for 15 years in the industry. She is experienced in working with many different clients and has a large range of makeup to try out at her studio. My client already uses the foundation as I have found it to be easy to apply, long lasting and does not cake. We were with Margaret for over the allotted time of 1.5 hrs.In this time my client was able to try out a number of different foundations and we all came to the conclusion that we did have the correct one. We then tried the concealers, this was a real deal breaker and when we found the correct colour the effect was amazing.
If this is something you feel would benefit you do get in touch with either margaret or myself
www.margaret.harris@houseofcolour.co.uk
or
marion@the-natural-touch.co.uk
M x

16/1/2023
Skin care. Our faces are usually what other people see first and whether wearing make up or not, if our skin looks clean and fresh we look healthier and any make up looks even better. You do not need to spend huge amounts on the most expensive brands however if you want the more natural products you are better looking at middle prices. I use Cetuem skin care products for myself and in the salon. This is a family run business and although not totally natural ingredients they do not use the "NASTY STUFF"
I find they work well on most skin types and last a long time. Many of the containers are very plain and simple so no need to have to hide them. If you are interested in a facial of the products happy to have a chat.

2/1/2023
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ALL.
I HOPE THIS YEAR BRINGS US ALL HEALTH, HAPPINESS AND PEACE

The last few years have been quite difficult for many of us for many different reasons so I would like to start this year by sharing how I manage to live most days in a positive state of mind.

I believe our body/mind is like a magnet and we draw towards us what we are giving out. So, when you are being kind and friendly to yourself and others this will come back to you in abundance. This isn't always easy to accept or understand especially when things happen that are not so welcome and when others don't seem to be sending the vibes out you would like. I have always been a fairly positive person always looking for the good in myself and others, However since reading Rhonda Byrne's book 'The Secret' in 2011 I have used this thought process and my life changed dramatically for the better.
Since then I have continued to build a great business, money has come to me easily, I have made good friends and am in good health. I do of course have down days like everyone but at the end of the day I say thanks for all that has gone well and gratitude for all I have.
Remember that everyday you wake up with good health is a good day. I would highly recommend reading this book and then focusing on the good things that come into your life.
I would lo
ve to hear your positive stories
Happy New Year
M

Testimonials

11/11/22
I asked Si if they would mind writing about their experiences when we meet up to help other people on their journey. I particularly asked to mention about the church visit as there can be difficult conversations with religion and different social groups, I hope that makes sense. The church we visited in StAlbans is openly inclusive which is wonderful and I really enjoyed the time we spent there. At the time of our visit there was no one else at the church which was a shame as I think Si is now ready to "be seen" Si is on their way here now and I am hoping we can go out for a coffee.
Watch this space
M xx

14/10/22

It’s October 14th.
I have mixed feelings about today. On the one hand it is the anniversary of a death in the family and on the other I have an amazing six hour appointment lined up with Marion at The Natural Touch, for a make up and Cross Dressing visit. The prospect of being able to be ‘Me’ in complete safety and comfort, and to share this with a person, who is so under standing, is such a wonderful opportunity.

I arrived at Marion’s and after a catch up over some coffee, Marion kindly waxed my eye brows. I then dressed in a denim skirt together with a grey woollen top. Already feeling so good, she then assisted me with my make up, which more and more I am able to do for myself thanks to her. Despite arriving overloaded with different dresses and shoes as usual, I never changed out of this first outfit all afternoon.

Following my last visit to see Marion, I had already planned in my mind another trip out in public dressed en femme. I had researched some of the local Churches close to the Natural Touch, which might be open during the day for private prayer. Having explained to Marion my suggestion about visiting one of these we set out in my car. I would have preferred to walk as it wasn’t far but the weather wasn’t that good. We quickly arrived at our destination and we proceeded to have a good look around the beautiful Church. For me this was very emotional, because I found myself perhaps, coming out in front of God. Afterwards we went for a short drive and then back to the studio.

As always, to have Marion by my side was of so much comfort and I could not have done this without her.

My one regret in all of this is that I never had a Marion and especially THIS Marion to guide me twenty or thirty years ago. I wonder how different life would have been.

I don’t know where this journey is taking me, but I am happier than I have been for a long time. Marion has drawn out something in me, which I think, due to societal restrictions, expectations and norms, has been too long repressed and she has enabled me to find a freedom.

I would like to hope that this little diary of mine encourages others to set themselves free. To be whom they are and to embrace their dual spirits. If their personal circumstances like my own, restrict their feelings then please find someone like Marion at The Natural Touch where one can be oneself even if it is only for a few hours.

Thank you once again Marion.

Si

21/9/22
My Cross Dressing and Self Discovery Journey with Marion

I visited Marion again today for a five-hour make up and Cross Dressing appointment, at the Natural Touch. It was my seventh visit since starting this amazing journey with her in May of this year. A lot has changed for me during this time, predominantly my style of dressing and make up, but above all the confidence in myself. Marion has really helped to bring out the feminine side in me that has been a part of me all my life. Instead of it being a fantasy, that I could retreat into as an escape, this other side of me has been truly set alive and is now very real.

Marion’s approach is to keep everything very natural. Rather than wear make up as a mask to hide behind, her skill is to use it to bring out the person inside and with her patient teaching through make up I have been able to fully release the other side of who I am.

Before I arrived at Marion’s I had already decided that today was the day to go out in public, fully dressed as my feminine self, for the very first time. So having tried on a number of different outfits and applied my make up, now was the time to take that big step, literally and metaphorically. I went out to my vehicle to get a jacket and felt that ten thousand eyes were looking at me and when I got back to her studio, I felt myself going into meltdown with my heart racing. Marion watched me closely with such care. She said very little but her unbelievable calmness was enough to quell any fears that I had, and the silent encouragement that I felt from her did the trick. Soon we were walking outside in the fresh air, admiring the autumn colours and chatting as if it was the most natural thing in the world.
A truly unbelievable feeling that I wished would never end. Indeed such was my level of confidence that I was almost disappointed that we didn’t see too many other people.

Having Marion by my side, to guide me on this bumpy, winding but scenic path that I walk in a bid to achieve self under standing is so fantastic.

She is a very special lady and I can’t thank her enough.

Si

26/9/22
Hi I've not posted on here for a while so just popping on to say hello. I have been seeing a client, S, see last post, over the last few months who comes to me for between 4-6 hours a time, time flies when you are having fun. We have been trying different clothes and make up, waxing and shaping eyebrows, and now she is confident to do it herself which is great news.
S has started buying the style of clothes that we have decided between us look much better on her. It is obviously very daunting when starting out, what to wear, what looks good on me etc. We have a lot of laughter and also some serious conversations drink coffee and talk about the future, I would say now have become friends. Last week S took the huge decision for us to go for a walk outside. There were not many people around however no one we passed took any notice and when we got back S was so proud, as was I, to have done it.
I absolutely love my job and helping people on their journey. I wouldn't say I am a typical make over therapist as I work from a Holistic approach, so no flashy make overs and photos but a more down to earth experience.

If this is of interest to you please do get in touch
www.the-natural-touch.co.uk
M x

27/5/22
Last week I had the opportunity to help a new client wanting help with makeup, clothes and just the chance to dress in a safe place. At first my client was really nervous so to help them relax I told them my story on how I started in my journey to help others. This did the trick and my client relaxed and we felt more at ease. They tried on a number of different outfits and I gave my advice on what looked good, what didn't and why, Some it was the colour other items it was the style, once you can see through someone else's eyes it can make things clearer. We spent 4 hours together and had a lovely time, the first time in over 20 years my client has 'dressed' and ever done so in front of anyone else. They left with a more positive attitude to what they can look forward to moving on and 2 days later sent me a beautiful bouquet of flowers. I love helping others and the flowers were such a lovely gesture. I hope this post can encourage others to step out of their comfort zone and feel safe to be who they really are
M x

4/4/22
Spring is on the way and hopefully soon we can throw off our coats and thick tights, and dare I say it get our smooth legs out. If you are thinking of waxing your pins this year and haven't already started to get them done its not too late to start. Waxing leaves the body smooth and silky for far longer than shaving and with little or no irritation as it starts to grow. Waxing does often help to slow down hair growth after a time, however this is different for everyone.
I am happy to have a chat with you if you need some advice.
Enjoy your Easter break
M x www.the-natural-touch.co.uk

29/1/2022
Happy New Year, looking forward to a better, happy and exciting one.
We still have a few more weeks of winter however the days are getting longer and it wont be long before spring is here and we don't have to be so covered up. If you are thinking of taking up waxing then now is a good time to start. It takes a few regular sessions to get your legs etc. into sync so rather than wait till the summer give it a go now. Smooth skin, no prickly re-growth, lasting 4-6 weeks .

24/11/2021
A couple of weeks ago a client of mine booked me for the day to spend it in their preferred female persona, the person they feel they should have always been. We started the morning with a makeover and dressing. They choose the simple day time make up, which I offer, to blend in with other shoppers.
We set of for Brent X London, she was very nervous in the car, but with my good driving!!!!!!! and ability to make people feel calm and relaxed we arrived at the shopping centre. My advice is to hold your head up high, smile at everyone and just be you. We wandered around the shops and I didn't notice anyone staring or pulling a face. In my experience this is the norm, everyone else has their own agenda and quite frankly they just get on with what they are doing. We made our way to John Lewis, had a nice lunch and time to talk. We both learnt stuff about each other and just chatted like girl friends do.
On the way home we talked about how they felt about neighbours seeing in their road dressed, the worries and what the neighbours might think. I suggested that possibly the neighbours may be doing the same behind closed doors!!!! and at the end of the day what does it matter. This encouraged her to actually drive home dressed rather than changing first. This was a first. WOW. A great day out and the confidence to do more.
I really enjoy these moments with my clients and helping them to move to a happier life.
If you would like to have this experience please feel free to get in touch, we can have a chat and sort a meeting out.
Hold your head up high
Smile at everyone
Stay calm. M xx

7/6/2021

ODE TO WAXING. written by Marion

If your bits are bare but your partner has hair
Please do not despair

If you are smooth, but your partner is hairy
And waxing for them is ohhhh so scary

The solution is here at The Natural Touch
To remove those hairs that tickle so much.

I work from home and my room is relaxing
No need to worry about how they’re reacting

With superior wax and skills to match
I will keep pain down to a minimum

So give me a call its not hard at all
Its all in the mind its subliminal

9/5/2021
This week I had a make up lesson with a new client. We spoke about skin care and how to clean the face correctly for the best results. I showed them how to apply make up to look more natural and which make up worked well. My client was really happy with the results and said they would feel more confident to do it themselves. This is what I really love about my job, helping people to feel more confident and happy.

5/5/2021
just to let you know that I am back to work now and once agin seeing all my lovely clients. Waxing seems to be the main reason for appointments at the moment as we have all had to try home treatments, some of which have been, to say the least, not that successful !!!!!
Happy to chat prior to booking to find out what you need and are looking for. Just had a lovely client here for a make-up lesson, not a make-over make-up but an everyday look. Both very pleased with the results. Please don't hesitate to get in touch for advice.
M x

26/1/2021
I would like to start off with a happy new year to you all however this year hasn't started out very happy. As a person who suffers from mild depression I am not feeling great every day however this I doubt is nothing compared to those of you who are not having any free time to be who they want to be. A number of my trans and CD clients have expressed how bad they feel at the moment and feeling very lost and isolated. I guess we all have to hope things will start to get better soon as will the weather. I am here to chat if you need me so you don't have to feel totally alone. A few ideas that might be helpful: meditation, listening to motivational talks. There are lots of speakers out there so listen to a few and find someone you like, a gratitude diary. if you want to learn more about any of these do get in touch.
Stay safe but don't over think
M x

21/10/2020
After a number of years of procrastinating I have finally formed my Marvellous Moi facebook group.
Our group are all passionate about helping and supporting the Transgender and LGBTQ community. we can now offer
The 1-1 diet programme + counselling
Image consultancy, personal stylist
Spiritual coaching reiki healing
Makeup lessons beauty treatments
Waxing massage energy healing

16/2/2020
This week I have met up with a new TVchix member to help with storing clothes, make up advice and waxing; Brazilian and full legs, it's amazing how lovely and slim the legs look after being 'de-haired'. As is often the way with new clients they are a little nervous on the first meeting but I do have a great sense of humour and, have been told, a way of making everyone feel relaxed and calm. If you are thinking about getting waxed but need assurance I'm happy to have a chat first. x

27/7/19
After a good day with the client above they asked if we could spend the day together, dressing shopping and going out for a meal. At the age age of 60 and never having done this before it was a massive decision. They came to my home therapy room and we discussed clothes, how to put an outfit together and adding accessories this time. Knowing which jewellery, belts bags and shoes all work well together is not always easy but makes a huge difference to the end result. Clothes chosen and help with the make-up we set off. S was visibly shaking and so nervous. I parked the car and we set off. First stop was the charity shop, no one stared or made any comments apart from a customer who said "excuse me ladies" . Sadly S didn't hear this but was thrilled when I told her. initial nerves settled down and we went to M&S. We looked at underwear and S tried bras on and a couple of lovely blouses. Shopping done we went off to a local restaurant for dinner. We had a lovely meal a good chat and a laugh. S said on the way home it was the most amazing day and when could we go out again. I feel very privileged to have been able to help S in this way and to know I have made a difference in S life. Having started her adventure I don't doubt we will become good friends and be out together in the future.
M xx

25/5/19
This week i met up with a member of this site to offer help with clothes and make up. we went for the day look and were both very pleased with the results. We both enjoyed the whole experience and not only will we get together agin soon to try out new clothes and makeup styles we will be venturing out for coffee and shopping.
If you need a friendly ear and an honest opinion i am happy to help. x