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Hi my names Amanda and after much soul searching, I have finally decided to revamp my profile page. Basically because my first attempt didn’t reflect the real me, and it’s so important to get it right. Please let me know If you like it...Before I start you may wish to grab yourself a coffee and nip to the loo
I’ve been dressing on and off for as long as I can remember, and have a strong connection with my fem persona. As for my male persona what can I say...typical male ego, who would jump anything in a dress if he could. Tends to hoards the TV remote like a gorilla hanging on to his last banana” and sadly just as hairy... now let me tell you about me...
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NAME. Amanda Day BIRTHDAY. 25th March. STAR SIGN. Aries
5’5” (without Heels); medium build; 10 stones (and a few pebbles ;) Brown hair with blue/green eyes; Yes I have body hair but I wax (and I never go out unless I’m smooth) and I’m a non smoker. I live in small town between Leeds and Huddersfield and I’m looking for fun and friendship with nice people,
Just so you know I have a great vanilla life, and am not looking for anything heavy, I’m honest; (Ok so maybe I’m a little fuzzy about my D.O.B); discreet; non judgemental ("I’m wearing a dress for heaven’s sake") and I’m told I have a warm friendly personality as well as a warped sense of humour, I have a passive nature and have discovered I’m bisexual but before I go further I need to tell you all something important.
In January last year (2009) I suffered a major stroke People have told me I’m young to have a Stroke, but really it’s just a lottery and I won. Mine was caused by High blood pressure and High Cholesterol; then in August of the same year a suffered a mini stroke ( think of it like an aftershock after an earthquake”) I should have told you when I joined TVC and for that I’m sorry.
Now I bet you’re wondering how it affected me...well if you passed me the street you wouldn’t notice me. (Ok” apart from the Dress and High Heels) yes” my smile is a little lop sided, and to do tend to slur my words a little when I’m tired (Try to think of it like you’ve had one Bacardi and coke too many)
The fingers on my right hand tend to get stiff sometimes, and I have little to no feelings in the finger tips, but the good news is I am still able to pick up a glass... I generally avoid the chat room because of the stroke... I just can’t type fast enough to keep up, plus it affected my ability to spell long term memory 95%, short term memory (i.e.) names, dates, "whose round was it" 55%.
Stamina...Mmm this is a tricky one...yes I get tired (But) considering; Monday I do Aerobics; Tuesday I do Circuits; and Sat I’m in the Gym; and I work 4 days a week...let’s keep it real girls....I guess the only real down side is because of my medication, I will never be able to take Hormones and so grow my very own Breasts, and I do so long for cleavage
Do I feel it’s ruined my life". Do I feel this is Gods punishment for wearing a dress" ...NO"
Shit happens...move on. I then told my partner...who to be fair took it quite well...when I left Hospital we talked it over, and she said she was fine with it if I followed 3 golden rules
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1) she doesn't want to see me dressed when she at home, she’s not ready for that step Just yet.
she like to spent her free time with the men she married, and I can see her point of view so I dress when I'm alone
(2) if I so much as think” of trying on "ANY" of her clothes, she will burn my entire wardrobe to the ground with me inside (Hard but fair) I thought about telling her' while she was a enormous size 16+ I was a petite size 14/16 But maybe not
(3) Leaving the house dressed... we both had a good laugh at that....NO WAY... It would make things difficult for both of us, unfortunately I live in an enclave of window twitching; puritanical; pensioners, this is not an ideal situation but trust me the thought of being greeted by a mob of torch holding; pitchfork wheeling; geriatrics high on sherry and waving placards ( BURN THE TRANNY”) is best avoided .
And so it means if I want to go out shopping or to meet people I have to rely on the generosity of other T/Girls if I need somewhere to change, the same reason goes for why I can’t accommodate
Do I look convincing...honestly ...Mmm no, I have an Adams apple like a granny smith, and my make up skill is at best basic. And because of my hand ( I’m right handed by the way) I can turn an eyeliner pencil into an offensive weapon ... the only photos you see now are ones taken after my Stroke, so judge for yourselves. I will post more photos as soon as I get them
After the Stroke I found my girly confidence was totally shattered and even now I tend to think of myself as damaged goods...and so I need to get out again, before I go all Norman Bates”
First off I would love the just go shopping and maybe have a meal, but I need a little help and support. ..So pleases Girls if you know of anyone who could offer my somewhere local to change please would you let me know.
If anyone out there should suffer a Stroke, (i.e.) in past –present-or in the future please feel free to contact me. And I will happily try to help you through it, just remember you life is not over, it’s only just beginning. Since joining TVC I’ve made lots of friends, and look forward to making many more. So if you want a girly chat or just a chat in general ...get typing...
Finally to all you male admires... to the cute guys I’ve met who have treated me with respect, and taken the time to get to know me...Thank you xxx, you’re always welcome,
And to the itinerant one liner’s who think I’m a piece of meat, and feel I should be grateful for the privilege” to sneak” over and dance the horizontal lambada, for a few hours while your wife’s at bingo... get a life” it’s not going to happen...save the electricity buy some lube, and go do some DIY
( my life” my rules” my body” my choices") Hope to hear from you soon
Amanda x
UPDATE FRIDAY 17/12/10
Well girls Amanda finally went shopping” destination Hair Plus in the Victorian Arcade Leeds. I opened my purse and paid a lady to let me change at her place, and then escort me to Leeds to buy a new wig ...heartfelt thanks to NykkiWild for offering to go with me, but I couldn’t take the risk I would show her up
We got dropped off at the bottom of Eastgate and walked the rest of the way, it was the worst moment of my tranny life I looked awful, and my make-up was...if I said basic” I’m being generous. Due to the problem with my hand because of my stroke, I had attempted to use an eyeliner pencil with the same commitment as a Zulu waving his spear
As for my hair... it was even money whether I could reach the shop, before the league against cruel sports attempted to save the hamster tied to my head. And all the time this voice beside me kept saying ... slow down” Amanda slow down”
To give you an idea of how far Id sunk, by the time I’d got to the bottom of the Victoria Arcade, the homeless guy selling the BIG ISSUE never even offered me one...he just watched me pass.
Finally I arrived at Hair Plus... 45 minutes later I walked out wearing one of my 2 new wigs... it’s a funny thing with the new hair I felt a lot more relaxed and confidant...and you know how a thought just pops into your head and you just can’t shake it... I turned back down the Arcade and slowly like a great white going after a wounded seal; I went to see a man to buy Big Issue.
I spent 2 brill hours window shopping before reluctantly going back, I had to go to the Ladies in Leeds bus station...E eek” once inside one of the cleaner spotted me and just smirked; I wanted to beat her to death with my Handbag...I would like to say two things (A) the Ladies in the bus station are worse than the gents and (B) I know I look bad but hell” some of the women in there were worse that me
Although I now have clothes and hair, still can’t go out because I’ve still not got anywhere to change...the more things change the more they stay the same
Hugs Amanda xx
UPDATE 30/12/10
Today I finally post 3 new photos of myself; you will find the rest are on flicker. I want you to see me as I now am ... I've got no curves at all “and my make-up skills are the stuff of legends ” my dress sense is a cross between help the aged and the stuff Lily Savage’s Mother rejects, and basically this is me warts and all. Except for the fact due to overindulgence I'm now 11 stone and officially classed as a danger to shipping,
I never wanted to be glamorous which is just as well” I just wanted to be sort of Gray to blend in... To sit and have a drink without hassle, I love to read about T/Girls who can pass and live the dream it makes me think dream do come true
Don’t go thinking I'm all doom and gloom cos I'm not; I have a wicked sense of humour. Plus there are lots of things I still want to do and games I want to play... but to be honest to stroke does make it harder for me to become Amanda, it took a lot of effort to create these photos ...plus the help five scaffolder’s and two plasterers
My pet hate is window shoppers so if you don’t have time to say hello, at least leave a comment to say if you liked my photos
Hugs and Happy New Year" Amanda xxx
UPDATE 16/08/11
Over the last few months I've been doing various photo projects for some of my friends here on TVC this is an emotive subject as some of you can be a tad phobic where your Photos are concerned but before I continue I would like the thank Vicky Haworth: Amanda Parnell: Kerrywakefield: Suzie: juliette17177 for their trust. every T/Girl deservers a nice photo of themselves, either for a private use or to post on flicker,
some of you are brilliant with both a camera and computer, and some of you are not... but having good editing software is only part of it, it’s having the imagination to create something with it basically what I do is try and replace the background and jazz it up a little, while you remain the same.
I don’t do photo/cosmetic surgery, so don’t ask but if you want two heads... however I'm still looking for a suitable candidate to turn into a mermaid. The service is free to nice people it’s just my way of giving something back to TVC
UPDATE 26/08/12
Sorry for the delay in answering any emails ... (Pant”), I've just got back off holiday, I spent a brill week down in Falmouth and I'm now stuffing clothes into the washer with the same determination of a sumo cramming passengers on a Tokyo subway car
(Highly recommended”) the coastal walk form Pendennis Point to Maenporth, there’s a great restaurant there called (The Cove) , so grab your sling back hiking Boots, available at all good
Army and Navy stores, and get yomping girls”
UPDATE 10/11/12
God "what a couple of months I've had, first the Pc committed suicide which cost me £80 quid to repair. then the ungrateful bag of circuits drop dead costing me my entire winter clothes budget to replace
when I finally got back on-line and logged onto my Yahoo and Flicker pages, shovel in hand to wade through the backlog of massages ... everything was in Japanese " it's taken me ages to work out how to switch back... then I wasn't getting any emails at all ?? ... was I the last T/Girl on earth " I finally got a grip and realised everything was going straight into the spam file
The last straw came when my TVC account wouldn't recognise my password, by now I was going bobby, here was a T/girl on the edge... not so much one step beyond more tear arsing down the next valley ... so not knowing if the problem was software or hardware related I reached for my Computer active Magazine, a T/girls friend in times of stress ...
and so rolling it up into a tight tube I began to beat seven bells out of the modem ...
OK the lights on the modem were flashing like fairy lights, and there was that buzzing sound, but it obviously worked and here I am, Sorry for a messages I missed I'm now playing catch up.
UPDATE 30/03/20
One week into work imposed lockdown, lm self isolating in a pre 50s caravan in the back garden. I’m all stocked up on the basics (ie) beans, carbolic soap, lip gel, mascara and a copy of Gloria Gaynor singing l will survive ... l just want to say to all my sister’s out there you are not alone, we will beat this
Hugs and Kisses xxxxxx,
Out there .... your not alone, we wi
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Cross-dressing, Shopping, Boots, Stockings / Suspenders, Sex, Online chat, Phone sex, Office wear, Lingerie, Dressed nights out, Groups, Couples, Panties, Email chat, Wigs, Erotic nights in, Admirers / men, Other TGirls, Full Makeup, I am Sub, In the Closet, High Heels, Daytimes, Weekends, BDSM / Bondage, Toys, Mature, Webcams / C2C, Role Play, Uniforms, Inexperienced, Tights/Pantihose, Pubs, Nightclubs, Satin/Silk, I am a non-smoker, Relationship (casual), Females, Attached, Friendship, Photography, Art Exhibitions, Museums, Movies / Cinema, Good Food / Wine, Holidays / Travel, Historic Places / Architecture, Mature Admirers / Men
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