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Non-op Transsexual
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Vive La Difference.
Hello, I'm Frances, an English Non-Op Transsexual woman, no, I wasn't born in the wrong body nor have I ever felt trapped inside it.
I chose to become a Transsexual, having got bored with my previous incarnation, it does happen and had nothing to do with gender dysphoria (which I don't have). For me it was simply a lifestyle choice, a gradual thing rather than some great leap, I wasn't an unhappy caterpillar hoping one day to become a beautiful butterfly.
I've lived as a Non-Op Trans woman (a few tweaks and hormones) for over twenty-six years, however, I've chosen to keep the plumbing, my passport says female.
Blonde, blue eyes, petite (5ft 4inc), I weigh in at about 9 1/2 stone 60 kilos, depending on the excesses of the previous week.
Several years ago, I took a diploma course in Counselling (for 2 years), I'd like to think it's made me a little more empathetic and listen more, well at least l hope so? I'm a keen gardener (self-employed), enjoy cooking, most things musical, a bit of kitchen dancing, theatre, galleries, the arts, Radio 4/6 and reading. Fine food and good wine is a big passion, I run and cycle about 4 mornings a week, to work it off.
I'm a gigging musician, performing both solo and with The Frantastics, to hear a little of my music and videos click here Frances.
I lead a happy, healthy and mostly contented life, but as with anything worth having, it takes investment, time and energy to bring these things about. Rarely has anything ever fallen into my lap, and it surely won't whilst sat on the sofa a voyeur or spectator of others lives (celeb TV/gossip mag's etc blurgh! I avoid negativity (and polycotton bed linen), it isn't conducive to the creative, calm and contented orbit I seek in my life.
Chatrooms (way back when I did them) can be great places and have afforded me the opportunity to meet and make some very good friends, but they have their limitations.
I'm not on 'The Scene' these days, you're more likely to find me on Main-street, or tramping about the countryside when I can (not nearly enough), with which I have a great affinity.
I've had it tougher than some, however, easier than others, I have more than some less than others; stuff is stuff, most of it can be bought or replaced, I don't need any more stuff.
And so if this is as good as it gets, I'm grateful, it's the life I have chosen and made for myself and take full responsibility for my own screw-ups and mistakes. Daily I make my king-sized bed (Egyptian cotton sheets, goose down duvet and pillows) and happily return to it at days end with a good book, before sleeping like a washed-up starfish on a beach; I do love my bed.
A stubbornly eternal optimist, I refuse to become cynical, despite the periodic fall from grace, which I'd like to think helps serve to keep me humble...ish and my feet on the ground, though my head's still in the clouds; dreamer meets realist perhaps?
I'm not a vengeful person (too much negative effort), preferring to leave such things in the large and very capable hands of divine providence, otherwise known as 'comeuppance.'
I suppose I’d call myself a conscientious hedonist.
A polite request should you choose to write to me, please no 'Hey you, look at my willy' photos, yes, I'm sure it's quite lovely but I've my very own should I ever forget what one looks like. For me, it's the bit that's attached to the end of ones 'willy' that impresses me most; a heart, a mind, a conscience too perhaps; it’s not the ocean it’s the motion that moves me.
At present, I’m just sittin' on the dock of this bay of life, enjoyin' watchin' the tide roll away, but ain't
wastin' time.
Baggage = Zero.
Gainfully employed.
I'm no wallflower, nor am I looking for tea, sympathy or affirmation (unless it's earl-grey tea at Fortnum & Mason).
I'm not running away from anything nor am I in denial.
The only closet you'll find me in is my own wardrobe.
I wasn't dealt a bad hand.
I didn't pull the short straw.
I'm not trying to get anywhere other than where I am, right here and now.
If I could be anyone in the world I think I'd still like to be me, warts and all (not that I have any warts mind).
Yes, you could say I’m mostly content.
And that's it really, in a rather small nutshell, see you on Main-street.
Frances.
Interests:
Stockings / Suspenders, Lingerie, Admirers / men, Other TGirls, Convincing, High Heels, Trendy/Modern club wear, Mature, Experienced, Satin/Silk, I am a non-smoker, Females, Single/Unattached, Friendship, Art Exhibitions, Museums, Movies / Cinema, Good Food / Wine, Music Festivals / Gigs, Comedy Clubs / Festivals, Holidays / Travel, Charity / Voluntary Work, Historic Places / Architecture, Mature Admirers / Men, Dresses, Books & Literature, Theatre, Vintage
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