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June 2026
Well 11.5 years later and I’m back and pleasantly pleased to see that TVChix.com is still around. Why am I back? Well I started my transition 22 years ago when i was 30, had boobs done in 2005 and SRS in 2007. In 2007 I moved from Leeds to start a new life down in Somerset. In 2008 I met my fiancé Jon and we are still together 18 years later.
I’ve come back because times have changed for the worse and all those hard earned LGBTQ+ rights are being rapidly eroded. I watched Tip Toe and I burst into tears, it made me want to rekindle my old trans friendships from 20 years ago. These are scary times indeed, we need to stand together as one and support each other.
What am I looking for?
Well, I would love to be a mentor for any TS girls starting out. It’s something I really enjoy and I myself was fortunate to have lots of support when I transitioned all those years ago. I’m also looking for friendship from other transsexual girls. Maybe even a night out or two. I’m not really into sex so if that’s what you are after we aren’t compatable. One cock is more than enough in my
life. 😀. I am bi amorous so would never say no to a bit of casual fun with an attractive trans girl or female.
Hook me up I don’t bite 😅
January 2015.
Well it's been a while but due an update me thinks so here goes.
I have been full time for over 10 years now, doesn't time fly! I am still with my 'forever' man Jon. Jon i love you more than ever. Also happy to be finally on the housing ladder, over a year now and my mortgage is (very) slowly being paid off.
I am here to make some new friends as I am a little light in the female department. Messages from genetic females or transsexuals of any kind are welcomed. Messages from guys, transvestites or cds will probably not be replied to, unless you are Leah True or similar! If you don't know her, look her up!
I am also interested in a little bisexual fun with an attractive gg or ts. This may or may not include my Jon, depending on everyone's preferences. I live in Somerset but can travel. So what are you waiting for, give me a shout.
Emma xxx
1st MAY 2011
Gosh has it been nearly 2 years since I last updated my profile? Tut tut naughty me. This might have something to do with me finding my Mr Right. Hello Jon, I know you won't be reading this cos you dont go on this dodgy website 'waves'. Nearly 2 years since we started going out after you went boatfishing with my best mate out of Weymouth. Poor love didn't have a clue what he was letting himself in for; nor did he realise that i was transsexual. I remember telling him on a night fishing session down in Devon. I tried my very best to put him off, told him all the harsh realities etc etc. I left it with him and the next day he said that he didn't feel any different; he fancied the pants off me before he knew and he still fancied the pants off me now! Bloody hell, why can't all men be so logical?
Needless to say we have been together ever since. He sort of grew on me, we started off as mates, he fancied me loads and made it pretty obvious and we shared a passion for fishing. Over the next few months as I began to realise what a softie and how understanding he was I fell for him hook line and sinker (excuse the pun lol) I have threatened to take him to Pink Punters just the once so he meets some interesting people and maybe some of my trans friends. He is pretty open-minded so I reckon i will get him there this year.
So i am only here to make re-acquaintances with old friends and make new ones. Em x
15th SEPTEMBER 2009
Returned from South Devon last night, the newly crowned Lady's overall winner of the Torbay Fishing Festival 2009 thanks to a shore caught Bull Huss of 10-13-9! Woohoo the J F Rockhey trophy is mine at last. I am looking to picking up my annual new rod or reel in a couple of weeks time along with a big fat trophy which i get to keep for a year.
28th JANUARY 2009
OK, i have returned to TVChix.com, i seem to have the forlorn hope that i will meet Mr or Miss Right at some time even though i am enjoying being single more than ever. For some bizarre reason i do seem to get rather a lot of messages, all of them are complimentary which really is lovely so keep them coming! However if you have any interest in me as a potential partner or friend please read the long list i am about to write BEFORE you message me! thanks......
OK here goes.....
- If you are a guy then you must be at least 6ft tall give or take an inch or so.
- If you are female then you must LOOK female and ALWAYS be female. Pre and Post Op TS are fine if you look and dress the part
- I am not interested nor will i ever be in guys who dress in panties, part time girls, CDs, transvestites etc.
- Minimum age 25 Maximum age 45
- You must not be built like a beanpole
- Nor must you be built like a large Buffalo
- Intelligence is a must, i get bored very easily
- Smokers DONT EVEN BOTHER!
- Drunks and tramps need not apply
- Have something interesting to talk about, small talk sends me to sleep!
- Please dont EVER ask me what i am wearing or tell me what to wear!
- Don't ask me if go out 'dressed' EVER
- If you are into all this DOM and SUB, fetish, pvc, S&M crap dont bother
- If you like football, fishing, fish, tenpin bowling etc this is a BONUS. Make sure you talk to me about this
- I absolutely will not get into correspondance with anyone with no photo on profile or without a decent profile. I have made the effort to tell you about myself so you can too. Your photos must be of your face and NOT your genitalia!
- You must live in the UK and be prepared to meet up
- Mention the word SEX or COCK or anything similar and i will totally ignore you
If you have read the above and fancy your chances then by all means message me, but please make it interesting. Thanks.....rant over :o)
8th MARCH 2008
This evening i have decided to become celibate. I have not had sex for 1 year and i never enjoyed it when i had a penis. Now that i have a vagina, it is so tight i cannot ever imagine getting a normal sized penis in there without it hurting a lot. For these reasons, i have made my decision. I won't say i will never have penetrative sex, but it would have to be with someone special and at my own pace. I know the chances of meeting anyone on this site who is celibate is virtually nil but i want anyone who is reading my profile to know so i am not wasting their time. I am afraid that anal and oral sex do not appeal to me either. I am a very loving person and love cuddles and kisses and affection, just not penetration!
29th February 2008
At last, i managed to relax sufficiently to get my big dilator right in. I managed it by lying in the bath with hot water trickling over me from the shower attachment. Deep breathing and lots of lube, lots of patience and BINGO the big one eventually went in. That was this morning, and i managed it again this afternoon. It is a big weight off my mind to know that i can get the 30mm dilator in, and i am sure from now on things will slowly get easier. The infection i have had down below for the last week seems to be slowly clearing and i am feeling more positive than i was last week. Dilating 3 times a day is very restrictive and i feel rather housebound although i have been going out for short walks up town most days. The odd trip in the car (as a passenger) to surrounding towns has broken up the boredom. Dave (my best mate and flatmate) cleverly installed an extra Sky Digibox before i went into hospital so we can watch different channels in different rooms. I have found so many interesting programs to watch, i love food programs especially Hugh Fearnley-Whittingstall, he is ace! They make me so hungry. There is always some exciting Road Wars, Street Wars or other Cop chasing bad guy program on at night which i love to watch. Then there is football and so many other sports on the tv that i have become a real gogglebox. I find lying on or in my bed much more comfortable than sitting down so that is my excuse for watching so much telly.
20th February 2008
Well i got out of hospital on Monday evening after only six nights stay. I am very sore still but everything down below looks good. I can get 5" depth with the 25mm dilator but only 2" with the 30mm dilator. I will update more soon.....Thanks for everyone's support!
11th February 2008
I have packed all my stuff for my trip to London tomorrow. I am not as nervous as i had anticipated, probably because i have been to hospital before. Two bowel operations for my Crohn's Disease had me in hospital when i was 21 for 6 weeks! Back then, everything went 'Pete Tong' and i ended up with an ileostomy. This time, i hope that things go a lot better and i hope to be in hospital for just a week.
I have staved off my nervousness by thinking of all the post ops i know who have gone through the same thing. Thanks particularly to Julia Adams for all her help and support, she has been ace! I nearly lost her as a friend in the early days, i perhaps didnt realise what a great friend she could and has become - thanks :o). The other thing i thought of was that one of my hobbies is sleeping and i am going to be asleep for the op and will have plenty more sleep while i am in hospital FANTASTIC.
I have told my sister of my srs surgery but chose not to tell any other members of my family including my parents who have just sailed off on a month long cruise. My mum rang me the other night for the first time in about 2 years which was a big surprise. They will all find out in due course, no need to worry them unduly now.
I am going to check off now, next time i update this bit i will be able to change my title to Post Op hehe, cant wait. Be back in just over a weeks time x
FINALLY I HAVE MY DATE FOR SRS!!!
The big day is February 13th at Charing Cross Hospital.
I met Mr Ringer of Bells last friday and he was lovely and smiley. We enjoyed a lighthearted conversation; Lisa Dorras (Gender Nurse), the good Bellringer and myself. Apparently Mr Bellringer doesnt like his patients to chose between himself and Mr Thomas for surgery. He was quick to assure me that both himself and Mr Thomas were equally good surgeons...in fact he went as far as to say that if he was going to have this operation himself (which he isn't) he would be more than happy for Mr Thomas to perform it! Then he told me that he took surgery on Wednesdays and Mr Thomas did not (cue smile from Mr Bellringer)...so i promptly asked admissions if i could have the surgery on a Wednesday :o)
10th OCTOBER 2007
I have today at long last received my letter inviting me for a gender reconstruction appointment with the surgeon at Charing Cross. Despite being approved for surgery almost exactly a year ago I have only just received funding. My appointment is on November 9th so i cant wait! Hopefully in about 6 months time i will be able to continue with my life and who knows, maybe even find a boyfriend! :o)
27th JUNE 2007
I had an appointment with the ENT department at Charing Cross. I initially went to see them about my (very small) adams apple. The consultant i saw said that he would be happy to shave my trachea. He also asked if there was anything else he could do for me. I mentioned my jaw and he said that i had a very feminine jaw so they wouldn't do anything. I also mentioned my nose, he said i had a great nose but i said that the base of it (the part by my eyes) was quite wide. He said that he could make it narrower for me. I forgot to ask about my brow bossing and a brow lift. Oh well, i have to have another appointment with the 'nose' consultant so i will mention it to him. There seems to be a consultant for every part of the face! lol One person deals with noses, another with the neck, another with the jaw. The NHS haven't quite got a surgeon with multiple ffs capabilities of someone like Dr Suporn. At least the surgery will be free - YIPPEE!!!
A BIT ABOUT ME
Hi, my name is Emma and i am 34 years old. I live in Somerset where i work as a van delivery driver and ebay seller. I am 5'11.75" tall, weigh about 10 stone 13lbs have a 30" waist and 36C boobs. I am incredibly attractive (and modest!) YAY! Seriously though, I am very fortunate in that i look very feminine. My shop is called Fizzifish clothing and i sell ladies designer clothes. I have known i should have been born female all my life and when i turned 30 i made the massive decision to change birth gender; This was in January 2004.
I tried to seek help on the NHS but the GP i saw had never met anyone like me before so was at a loss as to what to do. When i told HER what she needed to do, she finally wrote to the GIC in Leeds, i waited and waited........ It was only when i called them 6 weeks later that the GIC told me they were not taking on any new patients!!! I told my GP this and asked to be referred to another GIC. She said she could not do this - i was at a dead end! I had no other option than to go privately so I rang the now infamous Dr Russel Reid and obtained an appointment within 2 weeks. I was prescribed anti-androgens on my first visit, and although he wouldn't prescribe oestrogen on my first visit (due to some current court case) i asked him to recommend some that i could obtain on the net which i duly did. I took my first hormones in March 2004.
During January 2004 I told my friends and family of my decision, followed by my boss at work. It was decided after a meeting with HR that i would go full time at work in September 2004. I had started growing my hair and having laser treatment almost immediately so by September i would be effectively 6 months down the line. Unfortunately it became clear pretty quickly that i could not wait until September to transition to full time so the date was brought forward to July 19th. Most of my work colleagues were fine with my transition, it was only a couple who were funny. Unfortunately, despite the support i had, several people had difficulty referring to me as 'she' and 'her', slipping up all too frequently. This got to me after a while especially when it happened in front of people who didn't know my past. Eventually i decided to leave and start a new life somewhere else where no-one knew me.
So i moved to Somerset. I have only one friend up North who knew me before my transition, so i dont get called 'he' or 'him' accidentally any more which is ace! After two years of hormones i decided that my boobs were not going to get any bigger with hormones alone so i went to Belgium and got an enlargement last May to a large C. Those lucky few who have seen them rate my boobs the best they have seen. I am known to have the best boobs in the whole of Wincanton lol! I registered with a new GP in Somerset and have since been referred to Charing Cross GIC. I was referred for surgery on my first visit and got my second referral on my second visit. (i had lived full time for almost 2 years by the time of my first appointment). I am at the moment awaiting an appointment with the surgeon and funding from the PCT so i dont know how long this will take.
So now that you have read about my life story, what or who am i looking for? First and foremost, i am NOT looking for sex. There are plenty of tvs, cds, prostitues etc who will give you sex. If you are looking for sex, please avoid me!!! I am primarily looking for love. I want someone who loves me for who i am, someone to cuddle up to, to share my life with. I can offer so much to the right person. I am incredibly funny, sarcastic, happy, i love watching sports such as football or rugby, i love fishing, ten-pin bowling, modded cars, weekends away, eating out etc.
I am bisexual so you could be male or female. If you are male then you are tall (6'0"+) hopefully not too skinny, i like a pair of handles to grab hold of! I DESPISE SMOKING so if you smoke u will have to give up lol! i am teetotal myself so if u drink then please dont let it rule your life or get too drunk - i will have no sympathy for you if you do! You will have a job and a car so we can meet up easily. I am not interested in meeting a guy who crossdresses, it may sound a little hypocritical but it really isnt my thing!
If you are female then you could be genetically female or transsexual. I am not looking for a tv or cd nor a ts who is not full time. It sounds harsh but if you are ts then you have to look the part, i am only interested in ts who are totally passible and feminine (like me). Hopefully you will have a lovely pert pair of boobs which i can play with while you play with mine :o)
I honestly believe that there is someone out there for me which is why i am redoing my profile. If i do meet someone i like the look of i would expect to talk on a webcam almost immediately. I have a webcam and it cost me a tenner. If you do not have or are not prepared to buy a cam then you obviously have something to hide and so i would not be interested. I want to meet real people not chat with fakers and dreamers!
If you have read my profile to here thanks so much...maybe you are the one for me, drop me a line and lets find out!
Emma x
Interests:
Boots, Stockings / Suspenders, Lingerie, Other TGirls, Full Makeup, Convincing, Evenings, Weekends, Can Travel, Trendy/Modern club wear, No Male Admirers Please!, Inexperienced, Micro/Mini skirts, Pubs, Nightclubs, I am a non-smoker, Relationship (casual), Relationship (serious), Females, Attached, Friendship, Good Food / Wine, Sporting Events, Transitioning advice / mentoring, I have Piercings
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