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Thanks for looking at my profile – it says I’m in Spain, but actually I live between London, UK and Madrid, Spain. A few weeks at either, each month.
The aim of a good profile is to allow you to glimpse the personality behind the photo, to know a little about the person you connect with before connecting.
Let's journey into the rabbit hole of my profile...
Now, it’s important that I am clear about the person I seek to find.
I like the term the about men such as myself – trans-orientated. That sound's useful but not very defined, so let me define my orientation;
I've enjoyed women for a lot of my life. And enjoyed men at times. But I have always been drawn to transgender women. And in that, in particular, specifically, to non-op transgender women.
And that is for me a stumbling block - for all the wonderful post-op transgender women are (in my eyes) simply women and not of any more interest than any other women regardless of background.
So, how to I engage with a transgender woman, to find that non-op transgender woman that might just sync with me, without deeply offending those whose aim is for full GSR, with my preference?
A conundrum.
And it’s equally important that I am clear about me.
I am not marriage material. I have been married, now divorced and bear deep scars from it. I will never marry again, but then, I do not need a piece of paper to keep me by someone’s side for rest of my life. That comes from the many bonds – intellectual, emotional, physical, sexual, spiritual - between myself and that person.
I’m constantly learning about myself and know exactly what I want in life.
I’m largely not worried about how I fit in to society; the only approvals I look for are my own (and perhaps yours).
I will never be ‘The One’ or ‘Other half’.
Those are mythical beasts that do not exist – no one person can be all things to another, emotionally, intellectually, sexually or any other way. We need gaps, we need autonomy, we need some degrees of separateness; from this comes desire.
I am highly intelligent, erudite, creative, funny, adventurous, quiet, shy, kind, caring, generous, dedicated, supportive, protective.
However, being human, I can sometimes be (unintentionally) thoughtless, clumsy, foolish. I have PTSD and although now far more capable of dealing with it, still trigger on occasion which takes me into a limbo of low, or worse, being a grumpy old bastard! However, I am never malicious, aggressive or abusive with that, just a sulky grump! But I try not to be ;)
Oh, and I’m extremely passionate, sensual and sexually adventurous.
And on that note here's the end spoiler...
I am in no way ‘vanilla’. I love the world of kink, fetish and BDSM. I have no interest in sadism but I am Dominant. I have a passion for bondage of all forms, of taking partners into controlled sensual realms of delight.
I am not a tourist in this – I am a resident; it is my community.
We’re at the end of the rabbit hole - well done
Do you want to follow the White Rabbit? Feel like writing to me, then please add 'transamorous' to your message title or first line.
Otherwise, thanks for reading. You’ve given me some of your time – that is a precious gift, I appreciate it.
Bye!
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