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Transgender
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Classy / Stylish
OPEN RELATIONSHIP is the best way forward for ME (better than playing behind YOUR PARTNER)
I'm fit and active, was pretty good with tennis. I stand 5'11" and 6'4" with my knee high stilettos, 77 kgs. A lot of self discipline, will power and hard work enabled me to such physical transformation without pills or surgery. Intermittent fasting was the key, look up deLauer he's my guru.
This journey of cross dressing all started when one of my regulars (I'm a qualified and trained masseur providing pressure points massage to relieve muscle knots and aches) suggested if I could wear denier tights so he can fondle my long slender legs whilst I'm doing his massage. He bought me a pair during one of our sessions and I didn't look back since.
February 2020 (quite a late starter) I gradually experimented, bought my first bodysuit fishnet, a cheapo wig and I'd find myself getting excited to go to the gym and try it on in the shower rooms (there was a full length mirror!!). I was fortunate to meet Ms M (closet CD) I owe it all to her. She opened her doors whilst on lockdown and took me under her wing helping me with my make up and pretty much all the basics of cross dressing. A few months later, I've met a guy in his mid 50s (an experienced admirer), got on very well and he asked me to move in with him. To my surprise I did, stayed at his place 3-4 nights a week for almost 5 months. I played the domesticated role, looking after his place, washing up and ironing his clothes and preparing meals. In return I was spoilt with his kindness and support that I was able to have more outfits, wigs, and make up - loved it!
Unknown to me, he has some serious alcohol issues and some nights have been very traumatic when he is seriously intoxicated. At first, I nursed him until he gets to a state of sobriety. There were more of those nights that followed and I can no longer see myself being with him. I've moved out (took all the stuff he bought for me.. I think it's mine? Ha ha!). We still text but have never seen each other since then. I truly hope he's doing well.
For now, I'm immersing myself in this whole new world of womanliness. Connecting with the woman within is my escape (not sure if that's the right word). September 2021 was my first club - Legs800. There wasn't a time when I haven't left the side of my date that night. It was all new to me perhaps my naivety overpowered. He took me around, of course not missing out the Dark Room on a very busy Saturday night. I was only in the club for over an hour and decided leave and just went back to the hotel. October 2021, dated another guy and he encouraged me that we dine out in public, have drinks in the bar and then head out to a Trans friendly club in Crawley. This was really such a milestone for me. First experience for a wine and dine. It wasn't that easy, in fact it was very nerve wracking feeling overly conscious all the time. The way you sit, posture, way you talk and going to the ladies to powder my nose -- that was too much for one night. Blending in with the public, the unwanted attention (I'd actually smile back just to acknowledge) but then, it really helped with the confidence boost. He never left my side that night until we got back to the hotel. He's based in Devon and often in US and Europe but if he's in the area (Kent), we would arrange a date night. So far, we've been out quite a few times and happy with such arrangements.
Third date in public non scene was in Bluewater Shopping Centre for a meal and movie. That was so far my biggest "Walk of Fame" in such a very busy setting. It was indeed a very liberating experience! We took time browsing the shops, holding hands just like any other couple, quick flirty pecks as well as, Thai resto meal and coffee before going to the cinema. I must say I did love the attention and the entire experience that evening.
So far, I've visited Ted's, Sweet Wednesday, SHEworld, Legs800, Roma Tans, Linger London, Demonics, The Bunker, Penthouse Playrooms, Jay Dee's, Anti-Christ (Fire Club), LoveJoys, Stilettos Eureka's, The Gatehouse, ME1 Rochester, The Greenhouse Newport and Birmingham, New York New York, The Goose, Cruz 101 and crawling bars along Canal St in Manchester, Eden - Gran Canaria, The George, Temple Bar - Dublin, Pink Punters (MK), Klub/Bombshell, Touch Sauna and quite a few Trans clubs in Berlin, New York, Boston, New Orleans, Mississippi, Ibiza, Warsaw, Mallorca, Benidorm, Belfast, Menorca, Barcelona, Tokyo/Osaka Japan, Lisbon, DRAGCON (Ru Paul's Drag Queens) London Excel to help me see myself amongst other trans and learn from them. I continuously up skill my passion in doing so by reaching out to other CDs and I'm happy to say, I myself have helped 4 new starters for a make over and a photoshoot.
2021 was surprisingly amazing! I never thought this journey would progress at this pace, pretty fast I guess! I am here to further embrace more experiences and share the passion of finding a connection. I'm selfless in nature, extremely doting and caring. I can't see myself taking hormones or transitioning for now x I've already found the female within me and it's now a matter of finding who can accept and love me the way I am. As you can appreciate, the vast wardrobe for Day, Evening and Clubbing outfits (shoes, handbags, cosmetics, quality wigs et al...) do add up and I'd genuinely appreciate those who truly understands and know what it takes and the things behind the scenes to doll up at my league.
Earthly life is indeed too short not to realise the full potential of who you can be. Ideally, old school dates, dining, clubs and unrushed evening back at the hotel. Let's not miss the basics, regular quarterly testing for mutual peace of mind x
Oh, I do smoke nothing excessive but never go near weed, substance or any of that sh*t!- Don't drink alcohol -Yes, I'm still available for dating.. I'd really rather be on my own and enjoy the company of like minded friends than committing myself to someone who just takes me for granted .... Hopefully, won't be for long and definitely not rushing, who knows it's another Trans waiting out there xx
I'm big into Date Nites, that is meal, movie or club (I absolutely love dancing and seriously, I dance better in my heels/stilettos than trainers) and unrushed evenings back to the hotel to get to know each other better. I love the social scene, the finer things in life and of course most importantly finding that connection with the right person. If you've made it this far reading, I sincerely thank you!
Ultimately, finding that soulmate for LTR if someone is genuinely out there? Ideally not over 60 and definitely no OAPs. I'm not looking to be your carer.. hahaha!
Wear a smile, spread some joy and most of all love thyself xXxXx
** SUNGLASSES! wear them anytime of the day and night. Reading glasses during Dinner Dates - Windows to my soul for the select FEW. I have my own taste for outfits, none of those Charity Shop window displays. Stop asking or even suggest buying me maid, secretary, school girl or whatever.. although I might consider a cheer leader xX
Many thanks to ALL the guest comments.. much appreciated!
Interests:
Cross-dressing, Pvc, Boots, Lingerie, Wigs, Erotic nights in, Admirers / men, Full Makeup, In the Closet, High Heels, Can Travel, Corsets, I am a smoker, Relationship (casual), Photography, Good Food / Wine, Holidays / Travel, Live-in Maid Service, Mature Admirers / Men, Skirts, Can Accommodate (Overnight)
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