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Non-Binary Transvestite
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Classy / Stylish
"Only a man can be the woman a man wants a woman to be". I take that as my guiding mantra.
My name is Pamela Deluxe. Mature, sexy transvestite totally at ease with her feminine persona.
Thank you for taking a look at my profile. I'm also blowing a lipstick kiss to all those dear hearts who've kindly voted for my pictures or taken the time to comment.
Now granted, this may go off on the odd wild tangent, forgive me. But hey, like Pamela, it's a work in progress.
Seems also, to be ever expanding as I impart more erotic thoughts into it... Hmm, Yes quite...
Anyway, there's a coffee break halfway through, with a tuck shop planned.
Not that Pamela tucks but I digress.
So please take my hand, and come with me into my world...
...I'm good company and a good listener. A sexy confidante, who understands her man, and can be trusted with his inner desires and motivations.
I enjoy roleplay and immerse myself in character. Share with me your fantasy.
From loving Stepford wife, to aloof demanding Mistress.
From smart tart next door, to imposing yet delicious "Yummy Mummy". A tantalising lovebulge showing in her tight skirt.
I'm looking for connection, not necessarily "the one", but the friendship and sensuality of fellow travellers.
The male/female energy is what I find exhilarating. When that's weaved into a power dynamic, a sexual epiphany can occur.
Long dormant urges can be released, traced back perhaps to one's earliest carnal awakenings & Pamela recognises such emotions, gently bringing them forward to explore.
I have powerful maternal instincts, Mothering and smothering special boys.
Mummy knows best and knows what's good for you.
I am able to read a man's motivation and draw upon it as raw material in creating hopefully, something rather special.
My legs are long and toned. Perfect for fully fashioned stockings or perhaps glossy pantyhose and classic stilettos.
The friction heat of be-skirted, nyloned inner thighs, walking atop 5" spiked stiletto heels is a heady combination.
The sound of those stilettoes on a hardwood floor can be intoxicating. Like the remembered percussion to some deeply ingrained elemental firedance.
Blessed with wide hips & a plump derrière. "Does my bum look big in this"?, I sure hope so x.
I'm completely smooth and take pride in my appearance and presentation.
The style is elegant secretarial. 1950s/60s girdled, coiffured, mature and sassy.
Classic lingerie. I have a lovely collection of waist cinchers & heavy strapped, eight & ten garter suspenders with steel clips.
The aim is to be "graceful and poised" with that essential retro vibe. Stepford stepping out.
5'9" in my stocking feet, beautifully accentuated in stilettos.
Clear complexion and blue eyes with perhaps the odd laughter line.
Nyloned curvaceous cougar in her prime.
Passable? Yes... But then again I'm biased.
Pamela is Untucked and Unabashed. The discerning admirer knows what he wants and in my personal experience it's all about the bulge... Tell me I'm wrong x.
I have a nice collection of bespoke sissy panties, especially crafted to accommodate the unique Tgirl frontage.
The subtle bulge that catches the eye and fires the imagination. The true connoisseur appreciates that sensual contour of the "special ladies", tantalisingly hinting at delicious forbidden fruit, and the succulent creamy delights of the Love bulge.
The smooth clitty is exquisitely feminine. The focal point of the discerning admirer's attentions. Those men with oral skills take one step forward please.
I'll often wear one of my crotchless panty-girdles. Sleek tight fitting shape wear with the gap in just the right place.
I love to run my hands over the snug fitting material and feel my nice curves.
I love showing off those curves to an appreciative admirer in ridiculously tight fitting skirts. The skirt materials stretching and moulding around my thighs and ass.
The art of Eric Stanton always hit a nerve with me. Niche retro-fetish Americana but viewed through the crossdresser lens. Evoking that elegant, tightly restrained glamour of Nipped in waist and bulbous flanks. The 50s aeronautical "area rule" Coke bottle streamlining of Richard Whitcomb in human form. Transatlantic retrospective fetishism, Transvestism & Trans-sonics in one paragraph... More bang for your buck than any real girl profile could ever muster xxx.
Wanna make me laugh? Let's talk about Viz in a Geordie accent.
I also love retro trashy romance and detective pulp fiction a la LA Confidential...
Cut to the monochrome B-movie scene in the imaginary Ed Wood-esque classic "Quicksilver Neon" . Think "Glen or Glenda", but heavy with film noir cynicism.
The story of a good gurl gone bad. Scene #1: A neon sign illuminated hotel room. The light pulsing through a grimy window falling on a femme fatale clipping her stockings to her garter belt. The neon sign outside the room flickering, and flashing the words "LOVEBULGE" out over the midnight cityscape. The distant wail of a police siren echoing through the darkness encapsulates perfectly the sensual siren call of this danger-doll, as she uses her hips, lips, and fingertips to honeytrap her prey.
"Drag-net" personified. Pamela smooths her skirt over her long legs and nonchalantly fixes her lipstick as the camera pans back, A shimmering ultra tight pencil skirt... Shadows dancing across the stretched material. Lady Lovebulge in her element.
I enjoy wearing sexy clothes that reveal enough to excite while maintaining the mystery of more to come.
Smart tops are a must, a spray of classy perfume and well applied makeup. Hairstyle and accessories are important.
An easy smile from sensuous glossy lips. I'm completely at ease with my feminine persona, and enjoy the process of transformation. Literally creating my own reality. I learned to do my own makeup through trial and error and having fun trying different looks. The quiet dialogue and personal time to be silly and creative at times has been so precious. Looking into the mirror and breathing deeply and slowly as a softer face emerges.
Welcoming forward the inner "she", my lifelong companion and inner compass. But for chromosomal roulette, the one on who's face the sun would shine. But her spirit came through and held me in life's most challenging moments.
Both personalities happily co-existing and sharing an "oblique" sense of humour. Me, Myself, & Irony.
Did we not all inherit our mother's genes?. It's said that those who actively choose womanhood are the most in touch with the feminine spirit. This energy is all around us. For me, this isn't dress up. It's stepping into the truth of what I am, and finding that "happy place".
To share these moments with someone special can be invigorating.
I love laughter and romance but am equally adept with the fetishism which can elevate sensuality to a higher plane.
Plastic, Rubber, Nylon, and Leather...
Even saying the words has an effect, like incantations, conjuring forth some fetish phantasm. Those in the know will get my drift here.
I enjoy a good red wine and interesting conversation. More O than A. Sensuous pleasure is my goal.
I adore wit and humour in a man and smile broadly with my full glossy lipstick red mouth. Articulate men are especially attractive I find, and if that oral dexterity extends into other realms so much the better.
I enjoy being flirty and silly every bit as much as being a seductive and sensual woman. "A giggle in her talk and a wiggle in her walk".
I do enjoy a good comedy. Scottish comedian Limmy's dark surrealism, and also the comedy characters of Harry Enfield and Paul Whitehouse who amazed me with their knowing inventiveness.
I've always had an interest in 20th century politics and history, and especially "alternative" history, where the point of departure opens up fascinating new scenarios.
Musically, I've been a Gary Numan fan since way back and I've seen him live many times.
Gary's deep base synth-wave resonates on many levels. Hinting at a post eighties future we somehow missed in this timeline.
Give us back the future Gary... "So I press 'C' for 'comfort'. I dream of wires, the old days".
Life is too important to be taken seriously. I'm of the age now where I appreciate the absurdity of existence and yet value the preciousness of experiences.
Not everyone gets me and that's okay. I'm cool with that x.
I'm single following bereavement and that experience has taught me that our time is finite and precious.
Also a single parent. Honoured to bring up my children alone and be there guide and strength. They know nothing of this side of my life. Why bother them with it. This is my journey.
I work full time in a rather demanding job so have to plan my playtime, and Pamela is my playtime, my stress relief. Not looking for a long-term relationship. Instead, looking for that spark, that inexplicable connection where you realise, fuck yeah. This is good, this is alignment with another soul. Those moments are like a flashgun going off. Leaving an imprint on the senses.
Discretion and hygiene are offered and expected. I have no tattoos and don't do drugs.
I believe trust to be the cornerstone in any relationship.
If you've made it this far, thank you for indulging me. X
My respect and best wishes to Stella, who's created a safe space where we can be our true selves without judgement.
I would encourage paid membership to support her efforts.
Love
Pamela
Interests:
Cross-dressing, Fetish clothing, Rubber, Pvc, Boots, Stockings / Suspenders, Phone sex, Office wear, Lingerie, Panties, Email chat, Wigs, Leather Skirt/Dress, Admirers / men, Full Makeup, Convincing, High Heels, Daytimes, Evenings, Weekends, Can Travel, BDSM / Bondage, Mature, Role Play, Tights/Pantihose, Micro/Mini skirts, Gloves, Corsets, Satin/Silk, I am a non-smoker, Single/Unattached, Friendship, Photography, Good Food / Wine, Politics, Girdles, Makeup advice, Mature Admirers / Men, Counselling / Life coach, Dresses, Skirts, Leggings, Casual Tops, Smart Tops, Books & Literature, Foot Fetish, Vintage, I am Versatile, I am Switch, E-Stim
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