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Post-op Transsexual
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Classy / Stylish
Bio Bit updated 01/20
Happy Easter and stay safe
I cannot believe that I have been on here now ten years. Wow, in that time I've had surgery, got married and divorced, changed jobs 4 times and moved home twice.
I'm aged 50+, class myself as a woman with a transgendered history, with an F64.0 classification by the Psychiatrist many moons ago, but I couldn't go ahead with my desires to fully transition, due to other arising medical problems. I had to have a bilateral inguinal orchiectomy at the age of 24 and a pulmonary embolism followed shortly after by a heart attack at the age of 35. After too many years since then, I finally had SRS surgery with Philip Thomas at Brighton Nuffield. I would have liked it when I was in my 20's, not at 40, but I guess it was safest to wait and make sure I was fully fit, and surgery has come on since then, and I'm delighted with the results of a very natural-looking, fully working (in a sense) and very sensitive vaginal area.
I try to dress to blend in and to my age, classical dressing, skirts & blouses, nothing too slutty or trashy, but 95% of the time I just blend in and wear what a regular woman would wear, jeans and t-shirts and usually denude of make-up.
I've been told I look good and I know I look better in person than the camera shows. I can pass down the streets without getting anybody staring or any comments, so I think I must be doing something right, and everybody addresses me as Miss or madam without even having to think about it.
Professional voice therapy once a month for 6 months, in 2010, has helped a lot in making it possible to talk to people and not give me away too much. I'm not truly happy still with my voice, and probably never will be, but practice makes perfect and I've come to terms with how I sound and the fact that it doesn't make as much difference to how people perceive me as once thought.
I have two blue eyes that work, although the aid of glasses for certain activities is required. Light brown, highlighted hair that comes to my breasts, with a fringe. I think it is the style that suits me best and being long is quite versatile, and it's all my own, no extensions. I have a fairish complexion and had complete facial and body laser hair removal so have very little beard shadow these days, and just fair vellus body hair. Alas, it left me with a lot of grey beard which needs to be finished off with electrolysis, but it's a slow and painful exercise, not to mention costly. I hate also having to have 5 days growth in the spots they going to do. I look like a yeti, but it is good that I still get called madam and miss even with 4 days beard growth. Not sure if they just being polite or not.. I need somebody to invent a quick and painless way to get rid of grey hairs permanently.
I'm around 5'5" tall in my bare feet and around 5'7" shod, I don't do vertiginous heels. I weigh 77 Kg, after being told by my GP 4 years ago that I was underweight. So I have put on a little weight over the past few years but think have gone a little too much as I have a bit of a tum now and in the wrong dress can look a little pregnant, For those who think it is important, I have a genuine 36/30/36B figure with no silicon or padding, having been on hormones for around 30 years in total and I don't think my body shape will change much more and I am more than happy with what I've got. Although in day to day life I do wear a gel-filled bra, mainly because the Debenhams ones are very comfortable, I've been using them for more years than I care to remember. I take a dress size 12/14 depending on the manufacture and a skirt/trouser size around a 14
I don't smoke and only drink a little, I don’t go out clubbing or raving much, I'm not really a great party girl, and quite introverted. I much prefer just to be in with a couple of other people, that way I can give all my attention and focus to those couple of people. I'm not a late-night girl and tend to be home and tucked up in bed for 1 a.m. I don’t do drugs of any type, be they illegal or the so-called legal high drugs, and don't really want to associate with anybody who does participate in taking them.
Impatient can be my middle name at times, mainly with myself and my own deficiencies, as I try to be a bit of a perfectionist at times. I don’t suffer fools gladly and I dislike ignorant people immensely. I am a loyal and trustworthy person and I always keep my promises, I don’t like to let people down, and I don’t like people who let me down. I don't make friends easily, but when I do they tend to be quite intimate and long-lasting. It's mainly because I open my mouth before engaging my brain and tend to be too blunt and say things I shouldn't and nearly always destroy any budding relationship. I'm a pretty self-destructive person when it comes to relationships. But I'm slowly learning to be better at them, and now have a couple of good friends, one of whom means more than anything in the world to me. Alas, I'm no longer married to the wonderful man in the photo. It wasn't my choice still care for them dearly though we will never get back together. I need to find somebody new to share my life with.
I like to ramble, not great big route marches just little 5-6 mile ambles, I love historic buildings, National Trust, English Heritage that sort of thing. I try to plan holidays these days around visiting the places. I like to read, a diverse variety of books. in my library. I love music, a very catholic taste, that ranges from the heaviest of heavy metal to the sweetest of Schubert’s Lieder.
I used to love exercise, cycling especially, but an injury to my lower back, put pay to any serious cycling and running I used to do, hence the bit of a belly I have now. Now I settle for watching cycling on the tv, as well as other sports such as winter events and cricket. I tried to get into swimming, but it was more like drowning as I never learnt as a child, so now I'm a pretty much a lazy girl.
I also like photography, although I'm not very good at it and don't claim to be. Love to photograph buildings/Landscapes rather than people.
Anyhow want to know more about me then please ask. I would love to hear from you all via mail, chat and hopefully face to face, don't be afraid I don't bite and very approachable and open-minded. if you see me in chat-room PM me. I am still looking to extend my circle of friends and go out with people for fun. If you do arrange a face to face, have the good grace to turn up. I'm fed up to the time-wasters on her
Don't just view or add as an admirer, mail me, I tend to answer all e-mails, and feel free to leave comments.
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Shopping, Online chat, Email chat, Erotic nights in, Other TGirls, Convincing, Evenings, Weekends, Can Travel, BDSM / Bondage, Role Play, Experienced, I am a non-smoker, Females, Friendship, Photography, Art Exhibitions, Museums, Good Food / Wine, Holidays / Travel, TV/TG Activism & Awareness, Historic Places / Architecture, Transitioning advice / mentoring, Mature Admirers / Men, Skirts, Casual Tops, Smart Tops, Books & Literature
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