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Hi, my name is Shelly (Shelly with one E) I am a 50 something mature Trans Woman looking to mingle. X
I would describe myself as a wannabe slut. I am a really quite shy person and not at all confident so it doesn’t come naturally to be flirtatious, or slutty. I have to force myself in that situation with 2 or 3 drinks! So it’s best not to approach me when I’ve just arrive. Lol (I don’t normally drink so get tipsy easily)
I have had so many years of celibacy and a relatively short space of time left that I need to embrace fully and get out my comfort zone and experience that delicious naughty slutty feeling of just having delicious guilt free sex. I don’t have sex every week and sometimes not every fortnight so when I do I like to put more than one smile on different guys faces. Have I worked that right? I mean several guys faces. X I love when I receive a message from guys saying they saw me/snogged me/did more with me in a club.
My default sex (what ultimately turns me on) is intimacy and passion and super snogs. Making love right makes me feel an instant love and connection and believe it or not, I’ve experienced a few moments like that in clubs! I don’t have an agenda and I’m not looking for anything more than friendship connections even if it just means catching up in clubs with guys I’ve been intimate with. I absolutely adore kissing, snogging and hugging and being in the moment. But … I am also partial to being pinned into a corner for hot fumble spontaneous encounters. I don’t judge anyone but I don’t like rough sex or feeling scared. The rule of thumb if I’m kissing I’m fine with everything. I just love letting my hair down when I get the opportunity to go to clubs and thinking OMG how filthy am I, you go girl. I’d love to go to a house party as I enjoy a good flirt and a tease and not knowing what might come next. I don’t think I’m very good at flirting but I’m working on my game.
*ON HERE : I’m Looking for chat only with a view to maybe seeing you around at the clubs I go to. I won’t be giving you my number, or wanting to chat away from this forum but for me friendships are forged face to face rather than endless chats. Please have a face pic as if I don’t know what you look like then I won’t know who you are if I see you in a club. I’m also sure you wouldn’t be chatting to me if I didn’t have one?! I prefer not to be asked for a ‘meet’ as after all you’re a stranger and I’m not a piece of meat. I don’t randomly meet guys for sex. It was fun and exciting when I first started but the novelty soon wore off for me. If I’m going to take hours and hours to get ready I need to also experience the social side, as well as the sexual side. Clubs tick all the boxes for me. I don’t KIK, WhatsApp, or meet for drinks. Please stop asking! I don’t meet for 1-1’s sorry even just as ‘friends’. Like I’ve mentioned I only go to clubs and ALWAYS go alone so any suggestion to go together will be ignored. X
I prefer to make contacts in the real world. Well my real world, which is clubs! I would love to make some real connections in clubs and adore it when people come up to me and kiss me as we have had a previous connection in a club! I Prefer not to go to clubs with anyone. (Unless a private party and happily be a plus 1) I love to mingle and Wander and soak up the atmosphere than sit with one person in the corner all evening. To coin a phrase nobody puts Shelly in the corner!
If you see me in a club and recognise me from here then please come and say Hi as I love a good flirt, a sit down, a chat. Setting the world to rights or just chill-out. I just love getting to know people. But please don’t do it to get me in a cubicle as I hate that turn-style going in cubicles and having sex … repeat.. I find that really depressing hearing the click of the door and then the fumble, then door open and clambering out. It’s not for me I’m afraid. Instead come and find me in a dark corner and ask me for a snog, or if I have had a drink come and join in the fun. I know it’s a cliche but we only live once right? As long as it’ feels nice then what the hell.
I don’t have a type of guy I go for so any race nationality. A man is a man. I’m attracted to all men who are nice friendly people. Not so keen on cocky guys who think they are something special as nobody is better than anyone else in my eyes. So Just be normal I guess. When I hear people being nice, polite and friendly to others I find it incredibly attractive. Make me so horny. I get asked if I’m interested in girls and if a man is also involved then yes more the merrier. I love when everybody is involved and enjoying themselves.
The clubs I usually frequent are Sheworld, Legs800 and Sweet Wednesdays. Variation is the spice of life! And I like them all for different reasons.
I take my sexual health very seriously. I take prEP every day and have regular sexual health checks as I do love bareback sex. If I’m going to be that intimate with a guy I don’t want a rubber barrier so taking PrEP really works for me. I also take Doxycycline as a precaution after I’ve been to a party again because I am a bit OCD. If you don’t know what prEP is get with the programme and don’t be so flipping judgy. As so many people seem to be and to throw it out there condoms are 90% effective against HIV and PrEP is 99%! So Unless you use condoms for oral sex then we are all exposing ourselves to STI’s! life is a balance. I’m in my autumn years and I’ve not had any scare stories so far so in my eyes it’s all good. A really informative website is www.iwantprepnow.co.uk Though saying all this I don’t meet for sex that often. I’m more focussed on finding some kind of friendship/community in clubs so I would also love to build a friendship base with other girls like me.
I’m not looking for a relationship as I have a very convenient non-sexual kind of relationship/friendship. I get asked about this a lot. Like does he mind you having sex with men? No as we are in a non sexual relationship! How can he not tear off your clothes dressed like that? He’s Gay so finds me very unattractive! LoL. I do get my emotional and physical needs from intimate encounters and that works for me. In a nutshell I don’t want anyone to see me without my makeup! Call me a modern day Cinderella but instead of 12 I turn into a gherkin about 2am stumbling out of a club (gracefully) and getting a lift home alone. Ideally I would love to go to a club and see friendly faces and catch up with people. That will make me really happy and feed my soul.
Just to be extra clear I don’t go back to peoples hotels, houses, flats, studios, alleyways, doorways. I go home to bed!! I’m at that age where I need my beauty sleep and hot water bottle.
I am currently Brunette/Blonde/red and I am 5”10 with green eyes.
Anything else just ask. Xx
Shelly
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