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1st June 2023 I dont come on here much anymore, working shifts so odd times of day when I can get on here too, I am gobsmacked t have so many birthday wishes so thank you all soo very much from the bottom of my heart xxxxx
31st May 2022 Wow I had so many birthday wishes yesterday thank you each and everyone of you for taking the time to comment, I am having a bit of a time of it at the moment and reading them reminded me that you all care, which was much needed so thank you thank you thank you from the bottom of my heart Love you all xxxx
Such a sad day yesterday, I found out my facial surgeon (Dr Bart van de Ven) had unexpectedly passed away, he was younger than me and such a lovely kind considerate and gentle soul, I know he helped so many of us to become closer to what we expected to be when we looked in the mirror, but bless him and all that know him he didn't deserve to go so soon especially as he had finally found some happiness for himself
Feb 2022, well now don't believe the hype, I got my lips done with Russian look, yes they put a numbing cream on and yes it bloomin kills, but even though its still bruised and swollen got to say loving the look, not a duck face just a cupid bow - once its calmed a bit I will post up some pics I might even put some make up on lol
Ha ha! go figure! when I wrote the first entry on here I was 6ft 1inch (over 10 years ago) and now I just make 5ft 11 inches - who says these hormones don't work and I lost 4 inches off my neck too lol my friend reckons its because my boobs are so big and are pulling me down but what does he know lol
RIP Amelia Charles - I didn't know you well but when we chatted we both knew we were kindred spirits, never got to go out together thanks to Covid but now you can be at peace - bless you
June 2021
Thank you all the wonderful people who took the time to wish me a happy birthday it certainly made my day.
Face is settling down now so feeling a lot more confident about myself now, a little numb but to be expected loads of lovely comments on here and out in the real world too in fact not one negative so really chuffed to know it has been a success its nice at 56 to finally feel as I should have done from birth, had I have known how supportive everyone has been I would have done it earlier, it has been a mad journey but worth every step, anyone else not sure about any of it please feel free to drop me a line.
May 2021 (just)
so latest pic is me post FFS, beginning to feel like me again slowly its 10 weeks on and still some numbness but the area is getting smaller each day, its surrounded by a hyper sensitive area which was fun whilst it was over my top lip as I couldn't put lippy on as it felt so mad!!!
Covid is disappearing slowly which is fab news been out on my motorbike on a couple of courses which has been ace and good to be feeling almost back to normal (well normal for me lol) so onward and upwards I guess
November 2020 Lockdown number 2 - well facial surgery at 2pass booked for February, fingers crossed it all goes to plan, things are going really well in general still single but that's life I guess!
in the meantime where did all these amazing T Girls appear from? seems like loads of newer girls started from afar better place than I ever did - good luck to each and everyone of them but if you want to share the secret please let me know xxxx
Well that's weird, got Chix valentines day cards today and none on the 14th, and there i was feeling unloved, anyway thank you to the people who sent them its so appreciated - now to be inspector Clue so and figure out who sent them - not much chance but I will try lol
21 Jan 2020 Well its been a long time since I updated, but I am Post op now, and couldn't be happier with my progress, now lining up for FFS in Belgium later this year, not much news really still single but that's because I didn't want to get involved whilst recovering, social life is mainly motorbike related including track days and a bit of racing and just doing normal stuff as a carer with my two girls, still seeing friends and getting out there but not really on the scene at the minute but always open for a night out.
Hey hey hey, so 2nd March 2018, still around, saw the new year in with Gloria, been to see Devon and Heather and the Motley crew oop North a couple of times, had final consult with GIC just awaiting confirmation letter from them, got a part time job working for a Salon on the marketing side of things, and just about to start fostering, so normal life nearly for a girl who will never be quite normal lol, happy with my lot and slowly moving on, 5 hours a week badminton and about the same ice or roller skating each week, so reasonably fit, have to say I have never been happier, difficult to put into words but like living in colour when it was all black and white before, just happy I guess!!
22nd Aug 2017 been a while since I posted and dont come on here much these days, was out with my lovely (gloria_tvdoll) in Canal street on Saturday night, lost count of how many said- Oh I thought you were a real girl? really made my evening, but it was always going to be a good night out with Gloria and as ever it totally was, she always delivers lol
things are moving forward, hair is still fab and loving being blonde, got my boobs done 20th July, (snuck that in here so the perv's won't spot it as its not by a pic lol) and never been more pleased with anything I have ever done before, lining up nicely for lower surgery next year, so a very happy bunny. Still looking for work, but filling my time with studies, house, vans and possibly motorbikes again very soon. Feeling a lot more me these days and not challenged by the dysphoria, and bizarrely now find that doing the blokey stuff like my car / van is even more fun, putting my hair up in a ponytail casually before I start is such fun lol of course trying not to break a nail is a challenge but that's half the fun too!! anyway just remember you girls, its only you holding you back, and you only live once, so get out there and enjoy.
30th Jan 2017 - so new hair (no wig anymore) nails, eyelashes and eyebrows - tick, so cant be anything but me now, wake up every morning with long blonde hair now and love it takes a while to get ready each day but its a pleasure!!
3rd Jan - quit the driving job!! money was so bad - shame as the job was fun and being out as Vikki was fab, but tbh they would have had to pay three times what they were paying to make it worth the drama of 15 hour days for silly money - anyway moving on with the New Year - head in books studying need to finish the syllabus by end of month and only half way or its another £1500 ouch!!
Loving being Vikki but keep wondering if I have missed something?? just need a decent job as Vikki then can get hair extensions etc and become even more girly - ah well patience is a virtue!!!
19th December first week at work as Vikki only negative comment from a girl was blimey your tall sorry I was sitting down and didn't realise! -so doing something right!! Spending all the time between Christmas and new year going to see family and friends as Vikki so they know and have seen so cannot deny it moving forward - strange as its not coming out just making it real for many but everyone just wants to meet the real me- certainly a long way from the rejection I feared when I started this !!!
I have been asked by three different people who already knew I was trans when I completed my transition in the last couple of weeks and all were surprised when I said I hadn't-again doing better than expected it's so cool I love every second and have never been happier xxx
7th December 2016: Name change sent to bank tax man etc so now officially Victoria Jane Harris
still hunting for work although got a job as Vikki in the interim starting Monday but a couple of others for a lot more money but will have to start as Male so not fab but its now just a matter of lining up the ducks before no choices left, pretty much presenting as female 100% of the time - a few small things to complete but they are all about respect to others so nothing to worry about and all just in time for Christmas (will be my last as a guy in any way thats for sure).
6th November 2016: What a strange week, Tuesday back to the GIC for another consultation, basically got the green light for surgery - given I complete my 1 year full time female all other boxes ticked already - didn't expect that! thought it was going to be at least a year before I even got close to having the discussions about going full time (am about 70% as is). Thursday a bit of a melt down as with no job how can I go full time and start a new job? seems a double edged sword - but over all that now!!!
Friday arranged to get one of my tattoos girlied up with swirls and butterflies and as I put the phone down got a call from an agency very keen to put me forward for a fab role -might come to nothing but made me feel a bit more confident about it all. Got my tat done, other arm booked for Friday, absolutely love it!! Another step towards the real me lol.
Not out so much at the minute as moved and getting to know where the land lies, but did go to the Lovely Sarah Brown's party which was amazing and met the lovely Heather Rawlings, Devon Johnson and Sally Tranz Smith, 30 minutes in and life long friends (poor dears no idea what they have let themselves in for) which also lead to a fab weekend in Leeds / York with Heather and Devon and even more new girlfriends to torment giggle!!!
Went to my first Sparkle last weekend and what a blast spent most of my time with Rachael Hathaway (now Noble), we drank we ate, we shopped we were girls having fun, met some lovely new friends, and caught up with Stella, Mandy and Shelley Jayne too which is always brill, back to reality with a bump but three uninterrupted days as Vikki and all I want to do is do it all again lol
24th June - Well, who would have thought I would ever get to here, first referral at the GIC Charing Cross today as I took a cancelation, and I am on my way officially now, so much more supportive that I could have hoped for, lots of caution as it all takes time, but left being called Vikki even though I was in drab, it was awesome.
I am beginning to feel that its ok to be the woman I believed and hoped I was, and now they are supporting me to do it YAY!!! Best day ever lol
June 2016 Well I have managed to get out 21 of the last 24 weekends as Vikki, so not bad for someone working away from home Mon to Fri.
Moving from the south coast v soon due to work (a different job than the one I started in Feb lol), I had no work for 6 months and then 6 interviews and this was the best by far, love it, loads to do and they appreciate me so couldn't really ask for more.
Trying to get to Sparkle but accommodation seems to be an issue! but I am still trying!
get out there its nowhere near as bad as you might think, I wander around the laines in Brighton and don't even think about it anymore so enjoy if I can you can
take care my lovelies!!
Feb 2016 So things are looking up, got some valentines cards so chuffed didn't even expect 1, thank you to each of you. And thank you to all my friends who have been so supportive whilst I have had no money and have made it that little bit easier to get through it all.
Job is now permanent as of friday and has fantastic prospects just got to start making it mine.
Went out with Stellababe_tv last night 14/02 what a darling lovely lady, we did a little pub crawl around Brighton (my first) and were going to be back reasonably early which became 04:30 and other than sore feet from dancing in heels I had an amazing time she is truly a star and now a brilliant friend.
I noticed that I hadn't put anything in about my Brill friend Gloria_tvdoll (she's always telling me what a bitch she is, but she's actually a real heart sweet, just don't tell her!!) as we kick around together a fair bit and are good friends - just doesn't always match up timing wise, but we keep trying lol
I find myself having to make something clear, I am transgender, for the uninitiated this means I am a girl inside, so when you make it very clear you want to shag me (the polite version) within 20 seconds of introducing yourself as the latest and greatest super horny sex machine, I think we need a reality check. You wouldn't get anywhere with a GG with that sort of talk so why on earth would you think I would have any interest??? I am not a piece of meat, so as Justin Bieber says "Coz if you like the way you look that much you should go and love yourself" I suggest you will make more progress with a mirror than any of the lovely girls on here, if you cannot show some respect, Muppet! jog on!
Jan 2016 So I have some work YAY! First thing I did was bought some shoes lol what a girl ha ha ha
How does it work not a single interview for 4 months then a months work and 6 interviews all whilst I am working in London trying to prove I am worth the job... Aaaaargh my life is just so crazy !!!
A little down right now as having waited 6 months for my referral I get a letter to say - your doc hasn't confirmed you wanted this so we have closed the referral, so called GIC answerphone, no one calls back, called the doc and they were really upset for me and assured me I wont have to go through the wait all over again - well we will see but fingers crossed!!
July 2015 Your COGIATI result value is: 285 Which means that you fall within the following category:
COGIATI classification FOUR, PROBABLE TRANSSEXUAL seem to be heading more towards transgender over time which sort of makes sense.
I am now out to my family and my best friends, its a massive relief and they are so supportive.
Now want to get out and about a lot more but am currently skint so its proving difficult.
For those of you who can be bothered to read my profile it reads most recent at the top, but make sure you have coffee, biscuits a cushion to sit on and probably alcohol as its a long read xx
I am definitely Single now, its been a long time coming but such is life x
So those of you who don't think a visit to Translife is worth it!!
I have never even been close to a top mature babe before, and suddenly I find myself at number 13 YAHOOO!! - well 13 maybe unlucky for some, but I say PAH! to that! as I am living for the moment.
So a make up lesson at the wonderful translife.co.uk in Brighton, and some new pics for my new look, I cannot explain how pleased I am with my new look - Sophie at translife is amazing, very professional relaxed and no question is to hard xxx they have all the time for you and more, perfect 10/10 service
That aside Sophie makes you feel a lot more confident by showing you what you can be - do my own make up all the time now and get lots of comments about how good it looks - and being a typical girl I look in the mirror and just see the blemishes what a girl lol
Still blonde, still ditzy lol, loads going on haven't been out out for forever, getting make up lessons tomorrow so might even manage presentable all on my own lol
2014 Went to Milton Keynes all ready to go and realised had forgotten my dress, omg what a nightmare, anyway we made the best of it and me and my lover stayed in our hotel room drank vodka and she made me feel special for the rest of the evening, so in the end not a bad night, going to go back for April if we can, if not May for definite, and this time with a dress lol. what a blond, definitely losing the plot ah well
still loving my new look and hope to go back to AMC for some make up lessons, but funds are low at the moment. Got loads of things going on in my personal life at the minute, nothing exciting but lots of things that soak up the days if you blink, but that's why I haven't been on lately, find myself wanting to be Vikki more and more every day and my resistance is crumbling I think I am being assimilated from the inside out aaaarrrrgggghhh - tune in folks for next weeks episode to find out if our heroine gets to be the girl????? there is something not quite right there but I cannot place it lol.
Love to you all and keep being true to yourselves xxx.
Hey guys and gals, (not that the guys will read this - straight to the pics for them I guess lol) I have posted up three new pics from my visit to AMC as you can see I am now officially blonde lol, hope you like the pictures, I love them, and please feel free to vote.
We are off to BNO tonight got 2 new outfits and some new high high heels just for the event, so feeling very brave tonite lol I might even chat and depending how drunk I get I might even dance lol, if you are there please say Hi, if not have a nice Crimbo and lets hope the new year brings all you wish for.
Hey all another little update spent yesterday being me all afternoon with no distractions was absolute bliss, loved every second of it, put up a few piccies for you to have a look at, havent been on that much of late as v busy with one thing and another oh yes that what we call life... lol
Just need to ask this one of you all, how many of you look at the t-gurl porn and wish you were the gurl, I certainly do, yet most seem to want to be doing the gurl what does that say?????
Just another tiny one 17th Feb, went to BNO in Milton Keynes WOW it was great fun, my lover made it really fun, didn't really speak to anyone, but will do next time, took a while to figure out what went where i.e. trannies upstairs mainly, but it was quite a place certainly will be back.
Another little update 30th Jan:
Your COGIATI result value is: 245 Which means that you fall within the following category:
COGIATI classification FOUR, PROBABLE TRANSSEXUAL
Hmm I know but its pretty accurate, going to Milton Keynes for my first ever public appearance in a couple of weeks and am so excited, we are taking the Friday off to get ready, YAY!!
Update time: Oh have I been through it!!! Aug 2008
So my wife of seven years passed away in March after 18 months of suffering with a brain tumour.
My Appendix decided they didn't want to live with me anymore so they pushed of in June
And my wife left me her son to care for, his dad who only has limited access decided to kidnap him. So solicitors, police, social services, court attendances and a lot of angst later and I have an interim residence order banning his father from coming anywhere near him, and the day after the court case the idiot texts me asking to see his son. There are some real Muppets out there!!!
So that aside, a little about me since I first posted, been a bad girl and taken non prescription hormones on and off for just over a year, got nice little breasts, and make a size 16 without any effort now, got offered the chance to be a girl in the relationship full time and nearly took it, but cannot because of my boy (read that as always putting everyone else first), and just when the decision was, and the hormones were all looking like my best answer to the world, met a new girl at a party and thought she was my soulmate.
Being transgendered (and a lot of counselling has enabled me to say that and mean it) I got me a girl's brain in a man's body no wonder I am confused like so many others on here!
Spent a small fortune on girls clothes of late, in fact had to move my boy clothes out of my wardrobe as there is no room, so still confused but coming to terms with it slowly.
Always willing to chat to anyone with half a brain
I am six foot one without heels which I love to wear, I have been dressing intermittently since I was 4 and only in the last few years have I got into it to any degree, of late I seem to get myself into a real excitable state when I do anything which progresses me along the route to becoming more feminine and wish I had the courage to go further which is bizarre as my close friends don't believe how calm and peaceful I am when dressed.
I have several wigs but my fav is brunette shoulder length hair which I can never decide whether to wear up in pony tails or pig tails or down... decisions decisions, what is a girl to do.
I have blue eyes, and am of medium build last time I measured the tape lied and said 40c 31 41 (with a little silicone help)which is about a size 16. I love dressing and chatting to nice people and have a warm heart, apparently I have nice long legs that my RG friends are jealous of, but then they are real girls so they win.... dammit, I like kind and considerate people and am very shy until I get to know you, but I can chat for England if you are nice to me,I am not very experienced, but always curious. I have never posted on a site like this before, and it took me two weeks to get the courage up to post this, so I welcome any one who wants a friendly chat.
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Cross-dressing, Shopping, Boots, Stockings / Suspenders, Online chat, Office wear, Lingerie, Dressed nights out, Hair accessories, Email chat, Wigs, Erotic nights in, Admirers / men, Other TGirls, Full Makeup, I am Sub, High Heels, Can Travel, Trendy/Modern club wear, Bridal/Wedding wear, Toys, Uniforms, Inexperienced, Tights/Pantihose, Micro/Mini skirts, Corsets, Pubs, Nightclubs, Satin/Silk, I am a non-smoker, Relationship (serious), Single/Unattached, Movies / Cinema, Good Food / Wine, Music Festivals / Gigs, Comedy Clubs / Festivals, Holidays / Travel, Mature Admirers / Men, I have Tattoos, I have Piercings, Cosplay / Costumes, Dresses, Skirts, Knitwear, Casual Tops, Smart Tops
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