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General / Everyday wear
Updated July 2018: For reasons explained below, for the past few years, I'm mostly having snatched periods of quick and incomplete dressing rather than quality. I have my wife holiday without me for at least one long weekend or a full week every year, which allows me to dress nicely for extended periods, but nearly always "home alone". See also paragraph below beginning "Somewhere around here".
For some years now, "every day" early mornings (I rise at 6 on average), I wear a well stuffed E bra with my dressing gown or tee shirt. Sometimes I wander my garden, timed to coincide with passing double deckers. Occasionally, I walk to the postbox or around the block with the stuffing out but with the mounds from the pre-formed cups showing. I resent it when the time comes to take it off when it's my wife's time to get up (she's a late riser). As I type this, I'm also wearing a black lacy sparkly 3/4 sleeved short top and black panties, and have been in the garden for a few early morning passing buses but wasn't seen (in an open fronted dressing gown, to protect my rear view from neighbours). I also went for a walk in my courtyard without the dressing gown but with wig added, when I realised that my nearest neighbours were in their garden (high walls). This is a common occurrence when I can.
Summer 2016: I visited The Swallow (in male clothes) several weekend lunchtimes and evenings, but didn't see one CD there, so I was not encouraged to go there dressed whilst why wife was on holiday. However, I did go to McDonalds drive-thru at Plympton (a 20 minute drive either way) and had the server take my photo holding a McD coffee cup. I then walked the car parks on the nearby industrial estate (Harveys, B&Q as was etc.) and that was a huge buzz for me. I seldom go out dressed, often not for years on end, because of the difficulty of reaching my car unseen, as well as it needing to be when my wife is away, so this was a unique experience.
Somewhere around here, I decided that as life is passing by, I dress (no make-up) whenever my wife is out for more than a couple of hours. Sometimes during daytimes and evenings, I stand at my open front door on a busy street and watch the world go by and also walk my garden if I feel "what the hell". Once at my front door, an approaching neighbour saw me, so I stayed and talked. Later by email, he said that he didn't really buy my "practising for a fancy dress party" excuse, as my full outfit wasn't just thrown together, I looked like I knew how to dress, co-ordinate and make-up. Anyway, it didn't go any further, but it did frighten me at the time.
2015: I decided to get really visible bikini tan lines this year and sunbathed endlessly when circumstances permitted. I was soon unable to shower when my wife was in the house and bedtime had to be timed (we sleep on different floors due to different sleep patterns and not disturbing each other.... that's about the time she dropped support for my dressing, and I often wonder if she resents not sleeping together, even though it was her suggestion). I loved my tanlines, seeing myself in the mirror and standing at windows! I showed my male friend and he thought I was nuts! I couldn't go to a physio as late as November and was still showering with care. It was early the following year before I felt confident enough to let my wife see me naked once more.
2014: For a while, I sunbathed in my garden in a bikini with the deliberate intention of being able to see tanlines. Once they were visible, I stopped, as it became a nuisance to go beaching and keep covered up.
Re sunbathing in 2014/2015: I could only do this when my wife was out, of course. My garden is overlooked from 3 sides, and I had to sunbathe knowing when neighbours one side or the other were at work, which let me decide which was the relatively safe spot (only relatively, not totally!). HOWEVER! Four double decker buses pass each hour and the top deck passengers can see into my garden. I soon got into the habit of making sure I was visible when they passed! Some of the passengers could be locals, of course and I know I was seen a few times, cuz people kept their eyes on me as they passed. I wore a wig to cause confusion but I thoroughly enjoyed that small gesture of coming out just a little bit. There were no consequences arising.
2010: Sadly, one of my female friends who greatly supported me has passed away.
2009 ish: I'm not sure exactly when it was made very clear by her, but my wife no longer supports me and therefore my opportunities for dressing are greatly reduced. However, despite her disapproval, I still have all of my clothes, shoes, wigs and make-up and I add to my collection when the mood takes me.
** The detail below is relevant from when I joined in 2004 up to about 2009 (except the age was at 2008!).
I'm 5'10", 12.5 stone, average build, blue eyes. Just past 60 , but feel 36!
I am an occasional crossdresser. Sometimes alone at home and sometimes with my wife. I periodically wear underwear to the office, and also out and about, including when doing manual work outdoors working with others.
I've gone out walking or driving whilst fully dressed a few times, but I'm nervous about being "caught" by work colleagues and neighbours, which includes elderly parents. I'm sure I would lose my job if I was found out by my bosses. But I have come-out to a number of friends.
With my wife, I've gone dressed to a couple of dinner parties at one couple's house. I got away with it the first time as a huge joke. The second time, which was some-while later, they seemed to begin to think that I could be serious, but they still treated it as a laugh and didn't make me feel ill-at-ease. But I didn't feel ready to come-out to them, so didn't do it again and they've since moved away.
I have one male friend who knows everything, and who is unbelievably tolerant and supportive, given that he is not an admirer, just a great mate. He even allowed me to dress (but only whilst indoors) whilst I holidayed with him. Also, I've told three female friends, one of which was a lifetime friend and she was quite nasty about it and that set me back. But the other two support me, talk about it openly with me, let me confide in them and have seen me dressed more than a few times in their homes, lending my their clothes for the occasion. One even suggested and then watched me do a few walks up and down her street! I do feel that people are more supportive than I had imagined would be the case.
(I no longer have my wife's support, see later dates above). Whilst it's great to have my wife's help and support (I know many would consider me to be extremely lucky), she will not consider involving anyone else.... but I want to. Well actually, it's become a "need" now, rather than a "want"! And she doesn't know that my friends above know.
So, with total discretion required, I would like to meet a MF couple, GG or another CD/TV and hope to becomes friends.
Please don't contact me if you are simply in search of sex, whether admirers or TV/CDs. That's not what I'm looking for.
P.S. Though my Favourite Look shows as "General/ Everyday", that is only because there are no multiple choices! I also like to be virtually everything in that list depending upon my mood and opportunity!
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Cross-dressing, Fetish clothing, Rubber, Pvc, Boots, Stockings / Suspenders, Sex, Office wear, Lingerie, Dressed nights out, Watching porn, Groups, Couples, Panties, Petticoats / slips, Goth wear, Hair accessories, Wigs, Erotic nights in, Leather Skirt/Dress, Other TGirls, Full Makeup, I am Sub, In the Closet, High Heels, Daytimes, Can Travel, Trendy/Modern club wear, No Male Admirers Please!, BDSM / Bondage, Bridal/Wedding wear, Swim/Beach wear, Toys, Mature, Role Play, Uniforms, Inexperienced, Micro/Mini skirts, Outdoor Fun, Corsets, Pubs, Nightclubs, Satin/Silk, I am a non-smoker, Relationship (casual), Females, Attached, Friendship, Good Food / Wine, Music Festivals / Gigs, Holidays / Travel, Charity / Voluntary Work, Sporting Events, Girdles, DIY Help / Advice, Maid Service, Computer related help/advice
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