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Although my name is Jemma, I prefer to be called JEMMI, always have, so feel free to do so. I am a 54-y-o trans woman, submissive by nature and looking to make new friends socially out and about. I’m looking for real life experiences and not stuck indoors.
2024
Some new boobs from the lovely Jo Thornton. Great product, fairly priced and excellent unbiased advice. These products are a great way to experience real weight and feel.
https://www.jothornton.co.uk/
Slightly new hairstyle for the coming summer. Thanks to the lovely Natalie at Creative Hair, Nail and Beauty for cutting and regenerating my older hairpieces. Great place to go, be you and be treated with respect and understanding as an woman at the salon.
Back from Sparkle, a fun few days despite the rain ruining things a bit on Saturday but hey. Nearly 54 now and scrubbing up becoming a lot harder and more difficult in the mirror. Some up to date pics don't do me any favours or help my Dysphoria.
April 2022
Who’s going to Sparkle and what you planning?
March 2022
Well looking to recover myself after COVID put a stop to this before and a period of absence caused by work related issues.
Managed to get out for a night recently, which I thoroughly enjoyed and hope to now do this more often on the coming months.
Hope to catch up with some of you soon.
Hi all,
I like to chat, ideally in person but in recent times online due to the pandemic. I like to think I am a very social person and dont mind speaking to anyone - including guys, girls, anyone really, especially if we end up being friends and hang out. I am looking for people who can help me express my personality and feel as feminine as possible and if i can reciprocate this then all the better. The social aspect is very important to me be it with a number of people or individuals.
I guess I’m looking for certain people who I feel I can trust, as this has always been an issue for me. I feel I am reliable, understanding and loyal.
I've had a few false re-starts due to COVID and have missed Sparkle the last two years, particularly difficult as used to go out a lot. Gender Dysphoria is always a particular issue for me, sometimes I have it under control but other times it can be a real challenge.
Now well into my 50's its becoming more difficult to be the image i like but will keep plugging away!
I'am unfortuneately 6ft tall without heels, have many wigs as my real hair is a disaster zone and needs to be avoided. Most are dark brown to match my pretty eyes (well thats what i am told!!), I am bigger than i want to be but that comes of being 6ft and eating too much chocolate! I love wearing dresses as i am told i have nice legs and they help me feel feminine and female.
I have dressed on and off all my life, struggled with going out, been to councellors, Charing Cross, etc.
I now feel i am generally at last happy with the fact I am Trans, although still its squaring the view in the mirror with your mindset that is a challenge. Some days are better than others. I am happy to hear from anyone, im usually polite and expect same.
Yes I will and do help newbies go out and about, do make up, shop etc but you have to genuine. You are lucky that there are caring people who want to help. Try doing it on your own as I did. Stop being in closet there really is no reason, especially if you travel to enjoy it - believe me I wasted too many years thinking that.
MY CLOTHES
I shop as just about anywhere where i can find clothes that are either fashonable, pretti or that flatter my unflattering shape! I could shop all day - Particular favorites are:
Next is now my go to shop due to all the side concessions they accommodate.
Still have a likening particularly for Yumi, Mela and Jolie moi dresses.
New Look - for dresses, skirts, jeans particularly, most of my jewellery - less so here now im older
Fat Face - Mumsy clothing I like
Whitestuff - More mumsy stuff
Miss Selfridge - for pretti separates - but find sizing a pain
Top Shop - occasionally same with sizing
Debenhams - for the odd bit here and there
Evans (for oversized jewellery and shoes)
La Senza - not been here for a while now
Warehouse - mainly for accessories, but sometimes the odd bit of clothing
Apricot - the odd dress or top
Accessorise
Additions
Dorothy Perkins - they have some lovely feminine dresses
River Island - occasionally
Boohoo, ASOS, Yumi are really nice for dresses
M&S for knickers and Hoisery but more now for Bras their sets have really improved - so comfortable
Bravissimo - if i am looking at a larger chest size, and i love the support and fit
SOME USEFUL INFORMATION BELOW FOR PEOPLE READING THIS WITH TRANS ISSUES
(I found this on the web and although after I had gone through all this myself, it maybe useful to others)
AML Jemma xxx
http://www.pflagcanada.ca/pdfs/trans-myself.pdf
Coming-out & self-acceptance
Coming-out to ourselves is an important first step on the road to self-acceptance.
It signifies that we accept there is something different about who we are - and
we’re prepared to ask the questions that will bring us a deeper understanding of
that difference. Coming-out to ourselves makes it very difficult to return to a place
of self-denial. We have made an important decision to accept the present and
look to the future, come what may!
Self-acceptance is vital to our sense of well-being. To live healthy, productive
lives we must let go of any internal transphobia (fear of ourselves) that could limit
our ability to tap into our fullest potential as human beings. We must also love
ourselves before we can love anyone else; otherwise we are likely to burden
them with the negative feelings associated with our personal struggle. Achieving
full self-acceptance can be a life-long journey, but some of us are able to set
aside the important issues at an early age.
Trans people all have some degree of gender dysphoria. This unease or
discomfort with our assigned gender can put us on a roller coaster of emotion,
depending on the severity of the dysphoria. All trans people need to engage in
some degree of trans-gender behaviour to achieve inner peace. This is similar to
the way men who are definitively masculine will feel most comfortable adhering
to rigid male gender roles. The amount of trans behaviour will depend on the
intensity of our dysphoria; the greater the discomfort, the more we may need to
live in the identity that is typically hidden and suppressed.
Some of us come-out to others and to ourselves at the same time. Perhaps
they’ve commented after reading us through our mannerisms, or caught us
experimenting with clothes or make-up. It is not easy to explain behaviour that
we barely understand ourselves.
If you are forced-out because a loved-one has discovered you, remain calm. Be
as open and honest about your feelings as possible. Explain that you are still
trying to figure out this aspect of your identity, but you know that it’s an important
part of who you are. Some of us take risks to increase the chance of being
discovered because subconsciously, we wish to come-out but don’t know how.
Sometimes this situation creates problems we aren’t prepared to deal with.
Organizations like PFLAG Canada and other support groups within the Rainbow
Community can help; you do not have to go through this difficult period alone.
We come-out to others for many reasons: to openly acknowledge who we are, to
cease living in secrecy and to share an important piece of our lives with those
who matter most to us. We do not come-out to hurt anyone, even if we disclose
the information in anger.
Five Stages of Coming-Out to Self
1) Self-awareness and acknowledgement
- Individuals are still questioning
- Obtaining information, looking for answers
2) Telling others
- We often tell a close friend first
- If we are young adults, a trusted adult is often next; possibly a parent
- Negative experiences can send us back to Stage 1
- We might begin questioning trans or gay/lesbian/bi stereotypes to decide
who we are in relation to what we know (or have heard) about
transgender people
3) Reaching out to other transgender people, gay, lesbian and bisexual men
and women
- Begin searching for people who are similar
- Connecting with the local trans and gay, lesbian, bisexual community
4) Forming healthy relationships with people who accept us as trans
5) Complete self-acceptance
- Open, not defensive, content with ourselves
- Willing & able to help others
Accepting your gender-identity can provide you with enormous relief, boosting
your self-confidence and providing you with a better understanding of who you
are. Still, we face issues that most others will never experience. Society presents
many challenges that we must rise above in order to live happy and productive
lives (i.e., discrimination, prejudice, negative attitudes). These confrontations
make life more difficult however, people are beginning to speak more openly
about transgender issues and many of these battles are being fought and won.
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