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Out and about regularly these days, split up with my wife 9 years ago, other issues rather than dressing, and now can dress as and when I choose. Told my two lads 10 years ago, a bit of a shock but they basically said whatever floats your boat, and see me regularly dress these days.
A bit older and greyer now, but still got my own hair which is now shoulder length, and still into the glam look.
Just retired so will have more time to be Laura and get out and about around the country.
If you see me say hello.
Below is where I was some years ago, still worth reading, seeing how far I have come.
I have been crossdressing for all my life and now feel that I want to share with others and perhaps get out. My wife knows but doesn't like it. I would like more opportunities to dress as i find it a good way of relaxing. I am a fan of fifties style petticoats, wedding dresses and the type of clothes ladies would wear to go to a posh event or wedding. I' m 5'10" with long brown wavy hair, medium build and weigh approx 12.5 stone. have good legs in stockings, even better when shaved. I'm looking to meet other girls for friendship only,
13/02/10
I've had a few new incidents over the last few months. My wife's friend has now learned that I am a TV and she has welcomed me as I am, to the point that she has told my wife I'm still the same person whether in a suit or frock. This has lead to some interesting things. First my wifes friend actually went through my wardrobe, and wants to borrow some of my gear, which was a great boost for me, she then said she would accompany me shopping, which hasn't happened yet , but I'm sure it will. She encouraged my wife to buy me something for my birthday, which she did, and bought me a lovely blouse, god I was shocked when I opened it, as I knew it was a big move for my wife, I think I cried that night. A month ago my wife arranged for the kids to go to their Grandparents, as she and her friend were going out, and it left me some time to dress, bless her. After a few hours I had a text to see how I was getting on, I said I was just finishing my make up, and was really happy. Then the call "would you be ok for us to come home" from the friend, I was ok with this, but would my wife be ok? Then it happened, the front door went,I was in the lounge, purple skirt, purple multi print blouse (wifes choice) black boots, makeup & hair done, my wife's friend first came in, I knew my wife was in the hall, but as nervous,as was I.My wife's friend said she was shocked. She had almost regretted talking my wife into seeing me dressed as she walked into the house, but seeing me changed her mind.She was scared that I would look like a bloke in a frock, and she said that I looked really good, she invited my wife in. We had a bit of an emotional scene, and I realised over the next few hours it was difficult for my wife to look at me, although this did ease over the evening.
It was a good experience for us all, as I think it has broken a few barriers and that I like to dress as any other girl, I don't do tarty, pervy or slutty, I like to dress elegantly and I feel my wife now realises this. She has agreed to accompany me, with her friend, and another tranny friend to a venue in Worcester. Watch this space.
16/02/10
Have made contact with Becky in Torquay, and am meeting her on Friday night before going to the Meadfoot. This is another big step forward in my life, I'm sure the girls will make me welcome. I will let my wife know, as I don't believe in deciet and I feel she has a right to know what I'm up to, and so does she when she goes away. I've always felt that it wasn't the dressing that was a problem, but the deceit of doing it behind her back. She knew about my dressing before we got married, but it has always been out of sight, out of mind. She now realises that it will never go away, and does arrange time for me to have a "Mavis day" as she calls it. This is her way of dealing with it, and I am very grateful for it. It proves honesty, however hard, is the best thing.
18/04/10
Went to the Meadfoot in Torquay for the second time on 16/04. Met up with some new girls, all of which made me welcome. I was really pleased when the pub owner recognised me from the first time I went in Feb, and welcomed me, remembering that I'd come down from Brum. Girls if you're worried about going out, just make your way to this place, and you will be more than welcome, it is a credit to the owners. If I can do it, 180 miles from home, then anyone can, and this is the only place I've been out to. Special thanks to Becky, Karen, Zara & Chrissy for a lovely evening.
16/11/10
Lots of things have happened over the past 6 months. Went back down to Torquay in May, this time I took my mum down with me for a long weekend break. She has known I've crosss dressed for 20 odd years, but she really didn't know to what extent. I broached the subject before we went, asking if she had a problem with me meeting some special friends on Friday night, and leaving her alone for the evening. She said no, and then I said do you mind me getting dressed before I go out, or would you rather I dressed at Becky's? The out come was, she would like to see me dressed, and I had a trial run the night before, because I wasn't sure what I would wear. On the Friday night she even helped me style my hair, and I spent 3 evenings dressed with her, chatting and playing Scrabble, and had a great time. We were away for 4 days, and the telly didn't get switched on once. We really put the world to rights that weekend!
I have also come out to a good mate, and his wife. His reaction was "so what" and it was about 4 weeks later that he told his wife, and she thought he was winding here up. She now knows it's true, and again couldn't care less. They both accept me for who I am, which gives me hope.
28/01/12
Didn't get out as much as I would have liked last year, although did attend different venues. I attended a party at Geraldines in Devon last Jan,and a party at The Retreat in south wales in May, both great nights, but sadly The Retreat is no longer. I spent 4 days in Brixham, again with my mum, and spent virtually the whole time dressed, even going out with her dressed on Saturday afternoon, the first real time out in daylight, and after initially being nervous, I soon got my confidence back. Did a bit of shopping together, and on the way back to the flat, I popped into a busy chippy on my own, and nobody gave a second glance. Whilst i was down there I had my usual Friday night out at the Meadfoot, and thanks to Paula & Becky (and Richard the owner) for making me very welcome again.
So not too many escapades last year, hopefully this year will be better. I came out to some more people, one was my work colleague who I have worked with for 12 years, and a girl friend who I've known for 20 years plus. Both thought I was winding them up, and were only convinced when I showed them some photos. Both accepted me and quite often ask questions about "Laura" , which is great, and my girl friend has even adjusted a dress fo me, as she's a bit of a seamstress.
Am looking for more local meets, so I can get out more often.
I won't leave it so long next time to do an update.
08/02/13
Far too long since last update, but here we go.
Had a couple of trips down to Brixham last year, spent all the time down there dressed, and as usual had my Friday night out either to the Meadfoot,or Geraldines for a party.
Have been out to "Outskirts" in Birmingham, several times last year, including the Christmas party, where I happened to bump into several work colleagues who were on a night out. No issues with them since, and they have said they will not say anything at work, even though one of the girls was a bit peeved that my legs and nails looked better than her's!!
Went to Outskirts last Monday, and had a lovely night, just chatting to other girls over a drink, eventhough I had a major wardrobe failure. As I got out of my car, the heel on my boots broke off, so I had to resort to my trainers, and that looked dead sexy!! Hey ho, just took them off when I got inside, and only put them back on tho walk back to my car. So now I will keep a spare pair of shoes with me just in case.
Thanks to all the girls who I've met in Brum over the past 12 months, and to Paula down south, all of who have always made me welcome.
I will definately do more regular updates this year, so just watch this space.
09/05/2013
Out at Outskirts last Monday, it was nice to wear something summery, instead of having to wrap up in warm winter stuff. Always a good night, with friendly people and good conversation.
Went to Geraldine's a month ago met up with some good friends and as usual it was a good night. It was the first time I'd managed to stay overnight, and really enjoyed sitting around the dining table the next morning, dressed and having breakfast.
Thanks to all who have sent me birthday wishes. Now I've turned 50, I will start thinking about sensible shoes, and perhaps having a blue rinse. NOT.
I intend to grow old disgracefully!!
Interests:
Cross-dressing, Stockings / Suspenders, Lingerie, Dressed nights out, Groups, Panties, Petticoats / slips, Email chat, Full Makeup, In the Closet, High Heels, Daytimes, Evenings, Can Travel, No Male Admirers Please!, Bridal/Wedding wear, Mature, Inexperienced, Corsets, Pubs, Satin/Silk, I am a non-smoker, Attached, Friendship
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