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8.2.2026 update
Well slowly coming to terms with my new reality I'm stuck with this chair now. Can't say I am happy as it has cost me so many friends people I never thought would not be in my life have now gone. I was warned when you use a chair you become invisible what do you know they where right not sure if it's because people become embarrassed to be seen with you or some other reason but would love to find out
3.8.2025 update
Just realised how long I it has been since I have updated my profile. I was going to say not much has changed but some aspects of my life have now. I am now an ambulatory wheelchair user and almost died a couple of months ago (pulmonary embolisms) but hey ho 3rd time and I am still here. Other than that still single living in leeds and enjoying my life .
Update yet again 18.9.2023
Well attended the hospital to have my first surgical review all good apart from a small amount of granulation which the drs cautarised. Not the best feeling but had worse left with a smile on my face tat being told see you next year. then on to meet a friend for a meal before catching the train back to Leeds being referred to as female by all the people I came across was something I would only dream about in my younger years.
So what lays ahead for me now.
Well I am getting back into my hobbies match fishing being one of them also target shooting.
As for anything else on reflection I think I am ready to start dating again I did put this on hold as did not want to get in a position where I started seeing someone then them feel obligated to look after me during my healing process. Honestly this I find rather daunting as been single so long that the prospect of allowing someone else in to my life unnerving but also I am tired of being alone. And no it's not about the sex I miss the company the having someone to cook a meal for to sit on the sofa and watch a film or just talk to.
Anyhow onwards and upwards I guess.
Take care all xx
Update time 08.09.2023
Well 9 weeks post operative and things are going well have my post op review coming up next week so a trip to London to see the surgeons actually looking forward to the trip as planning to call into the hospital where I had my surgery and say hello to the nurses who looked after me there.
Not really much more to say am back driving and enjoying getting out for nights of fun first night out was 4th of August (29 days post opp) don't tell the drs.
Take care
Stephanie
Update 25.7.2023
Firstly thank you everyone for the birthday wishes and messages it ment a lot too me.
Well 19 days post opp now have had another small blip ended up on more antibiotics but overall doing OK. Operation has gone well and that side of things are progressing roughly along the lines as expected my biggest problem has been boredom being alone while recovering has not been nice but hopefully I will be able to go out soon even if just to the local cafe for a coffee and a cake lol.
Update time again 19.7.2023
Well 13 days post operative now surgery went fine with one small hiccup. I picked up an infection which delayed me getting home by an extra day have now been home 5 days and while its nice the loneliness of not having visitors is crippling other than that things are going well. Getting tired a lot will update more as I can
Update time again 6.7.1223.
Officially post opp still feels a bit like a dream
Update time again 3.7.23
Not really sure where this is going now
After spending an amazing weekend with some dear friends and even some new I made over the weekend. Last night I went for a meal with a good friend and final catchup before I travel to London tomorrow.
Afterwards while sat in my bed I had a long think (I know scared me too)I came to realise while everyone was asking if I was getting excited about my upcoming surgery the answer is simple. No I finally feel at peace within my self I have come a long way amd lost many people in my life due to my transition some I miss more than others from my old life. But I have also made some wonderful new friends too along the way some have stayed some have moved on but they all left their mark in my life.
So to those who have stuck around thank you. I am sure there will be many more updates to come as I recover .
Stephanie xxx
Updete time again 22.6.23
Well today I woke to an alarm on my phone stating today was theater day which it originally was. Thanks to the junior drs strike I got put back 2 weeks so 14 days to go now and I can't wait my case is packed train tickets bought and paid for and lift home sorted. Got some wonderful news a friend that lives in Brighton is going to travel to London to visit me while in hospital as other than the friend who is collecting me to bring me home I will be alone I guess barring phone and Facebook I really cant wait for this to be over with now.
On a lighter note my last lff I have my outfit sorted just about and am looking forward to a good night with some wonderful new friends I have made since I started attending it again.
Anyhow onwards and upwards as they say
Xxx
Update time again 13th june 2033
Well 3 weeks tomorrow I go in to hospital getting closer and still as excited. I really cant wait just about everything sorted now apart from my lift home from the hospital been let down 4 times now by different people.
Anyhow onwards and upwards .
Update time again 25.5.23
Well 6 weeks today I will have completed my journey.
funny thing is it will be exactly 11 years to the day since I stepped back out into the world lff july 2012 and realised there was no going back to being him.
I found myself that night with the help of some amazing friends.
So the next 2 lffs are going to be my night to spend with friends and celebrate how far I have come.
If you see me around please come and say hi.
update 20/5/23
well 47 days to go 6th of july getting closer i really cant wait
well 59 days until surgery now and i am both looking forward and dreading it due to the breakdown of a friendship with a person who was both very dear to me but also who was going to look after me at the early stages of my recovery
Little update due to drs strike my surgery has been put back 2 weeks so now we are back to 12 weeks as of today new surgical date 6/7/2023 still excited though
Update time a little over 11 weeks to go now life is getting more fun wieghtloss now at the point I need to go buy more new clothes (which is horribl) just kidding I love shopping and onwards and upwards as they say
Updat 16th march
Well full steam ahead had appointment in London and finally got my date for surgery 22nd of June the next chapter finally begins as they say and I can't wait
Thank you everyone for the birthday wishes shows the state of my life when I get more on here than off people who are supposed to be my friends thanks again xxx
helped so many people taken for a mug no more find your own way
hi I was on here before but took time out to get on with my life
just looking to connect with old friends not looking for anything sexual
so if my old friends remember me drop me a line
I am under the care of the gic and just getting on with my life
i am 5'10"
average build
blue grey eyes
own hair
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