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Hi,
Thank you for looking at my profile. Not quite sure what I should be putting here but I have a relaxed and easy-going personality...very open-minded...love playing games ...read into that what you will(!)...
I am 5ft7, medium build, dark hair and eyes...and lovely to hug!
Who am I? - wow what a question...very difficult to put 'me' into words but I guess the above kinda sums me up superficially. Use
What am I looking for? - someone fun? easy going? relaxed? no hang-ups....crumbs... I'm looking for a friend...someone who I can relate to and who will understand me... someone to put up with me maybe?! perhaps that's going too far but hopefully you get the idea!
Time for an update (26/10/2023):
After a year of being on the edge of breaking down mentally I am now through to the other side and more accepting of myself. Everything I have written here before this update still holds true.
This is where I will lose those of you looking for physical intimacy - meeting up isn't something that I am looking for. Perhaps way into the far dystopian future I would consider it but right now? That isn't what I am looking for.
I need somebody, one somebody, who has an active imagination. I love the written word and I need somebody who feels the same. I need someone with a wild side but doesn't go to extremes. Those of you who are only available during office hours need to move along please.
I am a night owl and consequently I am frequently online and available to chat 9pm/10pm until late most nights (GMT). I am sometimes available late afternoon/early evening but not as often.
I think there are a number of things that I should say about: Who I am on the inside in no way matches up with what I am on the outside. I am flexible and attentive to my potential partner's needs but don't mistake that for being submissive. I do have sub tendencies but there are limits to which I will go. I am not exactly a switch but I have a topping from the bottom personality. I use the word "no" infrequently but I do use it.
Inside my mind I am a lonely but attractive woman who needs a [virtual] boyfriend/husband to be with and love. Inside I am a cosplaying geeky woman.
I am not opposed to a lesbian relationship or trans relationship but I am most definitely female in my demeanor and personality.
On the outside I am someone who loves to read, watch scifi/fantasy/action movies, watches a little too much TV, loves listening to music way too loud on my headphones on the train journey home. These are my gender neutral traits that exist in tandem with the woman inside of me. I am certain that there are more but as an initial "hey, look at me!" this is quite summative of who I am a lot of the time.
I am seeking something that "feels real" - the kind of thing that if all our text/email/message exchanges were discovered then it would like to the outside world like a "normal heterosexual long term relationship" - if such a thing exists. There would be banter, sexy messages, loving/caring messages, a deep understanding of one another and vivid, detailed, explicit exchanges.... you can guess the rest by reading into that what you will.
I do not want anyone who feels guilt about being here looking at this site. I don't want anyone who switches off the moment they achieve sexual gratification (both literally and figuratively).
I am not unreasonably demanding in my needs. I may in fact be more suitable for someone who would want me to take the lead. However, a man should be a man and tell me what he wants. He/she shouldn't insist that I must be on top all the time.
I am lonely but not always alone. I am distant, in many respects, from those that exist in my life.
I don't use Skype/cam.
If you have read this far then you really are quite persistent aren't you but likely I have lost your interest somewhere along the way and that's okay.
Just to say once again - I am relaxed and easy going! Although that statement may be at odds with everything I have written here!
I'll probably end up adding extra bits to all the above but I hope I have at least entertained you for a minute or two?!
Update (19/05/24)
You will see me from time to time in the chatroom. This is me socialising. It is not for you to assume I will skype/cam with you. It is not for you to assume I will send photos of myself to you. Get to know me as I will get to know you. I am here for you if we are right for one another. There's only one way to find that out....
Update (23/06/24)
I've been venturing out as my true inner self. Some success and not so much at the same time. Sweet Wednesday was intense and great but I did feel out of place at first. I wanted more and yet I didn't want anything at the same time. I met some lovely people and whilst I had fun it was intentionally tame compared to some of the things that others got up to.
My health is an issue. Both mental and physical. I have a heart issue that I didn't know I was born with until recent years. My mental health is better but not perfect.
Those of you looking at my photo - please know that it's an older photo. I'm not a catfish but you should realise that physical health concerns have taken their toll on me.
I am good enough to entertain men - plural - in the right setting (such as Sweet Wednesday) but honestly you should not be looking to meet me immediately. It's difficult for me on a number of levels. Just be kind please. That's all I ask. And most of all patient.
love
Sita
xxx
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Cross-dressing, Stockings / Suspenders, Sex, Online chat, Office wear, Lingerie, Watching porn, Couples, Wigs, Erotic nights in, Admirers / men, I am Sub, High Heels, Evenings, Weekends, Role Play, Experienced, Micro/Mini skirts, Outdoor Fun, Corsets, I am a non-smoker, Relationship (casual), Females, Attached, Friendship, Movies / Cinema, Mature Admirers / Men, Dresses, Books & Literature
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